And it’s either how he pampered the uke into thinking that friends do all that for each other...and that friends completely limit conversation? He’s giving him all the wrong ideas and it’s sad :(
excuse me even if you have a friend pampering you isn't it common sense to want to take care of yourself and
generally become independent? That is literally what you're taught. Yes he seme may look suspicious but you can't just speculate he had malicious intent. It's literally a person's duty to learn how to take a damn shower or wash your clothes without being told to do so. And in the meantime, instead of buying instant noodles all the time, buy a cookig book and teach yourself. Jesus.
All I said is that it’s weird that he’s given the uke the idea that friends even pamper you like that. Clearly the uke is missing some screws in the common sense department and he’s using that to mess with his feelings. You can’t act like it’s not weird to begin with
you say that like it's easy. You clearly never lost someone who did everything for you, you become lost not knowing what to do for months. It takes time. Everyone deals with stuff differently. Sometimes you simply don't want to leave the bed because why would you? you have no reason to do that. I'm not saying the seme is the only one in the wrong but everyone is calling the uke dumb or stuff like that when it's not true. Since he was a kid the other did literally everything for him he never had to do anything. He took him for granted. And now that he doesn't have anyone he doesn't know where to start because no one taught him. The only reason he left the house was bc the seme woke him up and the seme was literally all he had, without him why would he leave the house? To see who? He doesn't know anyone that is close to him
I agree with that
It's not right for you to make assumptions about my life. I get your point, and I know the uke isn't stupid, and it's understandable hat he hasn't been taught, but when you put yourself in sucharge situation it's good to take responsibility and start from somewhere. That's what I mean.
Yes i get it, i agree that he should learn how to take care of himself first but what i meant was that people were calling him dumb and stupid for not doing anything about it. What people have to understand is that it takes time for someone to want to get better
Yeah I agree with that
Uke grew up without having to do anything bc the seme always did everything for him. It's not his fault that he's not used to this. It takes time for someone to become independent. And honestly the seme made him like this, he wanted the uke to not be able to live without him so yeah. Imagine you suddenly lose the only person you have and they always did everything for you, of course you're going to be lost not knowing what to do. Though i do think the uke should try learning how to take care of himself first and then go after the seme.