Ugh, ol' cry baby ass

BLOW POP SECRETS December 21, 2020 8:03 pm

This uke is a whole ass baby. The seme been pulling him along this entire story. There's barely any progress between the two and im not talking about sex. And now we're here. I feel bad for the seme. Cant see why he would like the uke, he's been trying SOOOO hard, too hard at times and now he's dealt another blow from this lil weanie.

Responses
    bluefox December 21, 2020 8:33 pm

    I get that he is being difficult but how about a bit of empathy. He is starting in a whole new place with someone that has a personality opposite to his, while knowing full well that he won't be staying more than a year. To me it sounds like enough to worry or even scare anyone...

    Fernando December 21, 2020 9:38 pm

    Lmao this right here is the plot of almost every wholesome yaoi that DOESN'T have rape, so I'm really curious why you would have that reaction even though you're right

    BLOW POP SECRETS December 21, 2020 11:02 pm
    I get that he is being difficult but how about a bit of empathy. He is starting in a whole new place with someone that has a personality opposite to his, while knowing full well that he won't be staying more th... bluefox

    I get what you are trying to say but i disagree. Yes that can scare SOME people especially socially awkward ones like the uke but he literally would not have had any of t positive experiences since his move if not for the seme - no friends, no fun, nothing. The seme has been giving and giving and the uke is just taking WITHOUT making an effort. He reluctantly goes along with the seme rather than things seeming like he actually wants to go along. Throwing up empathy seems like "ok lets feel sorry for him" and give him a pass. Which readers always want to do with ukes that are depicted as weak. He agreed to a relationship knowing all of his circumstances. He made that decision. The seme wants to be happy and the uke is not letting them progress. The dynamic is too onesided. The uke is NOT ready for sex, so the seme pressuring him I think is the wrong direction especially since the uke has very little "give" for them to even make it to being just at a comfortable place in their relationship. And now he just blows up rather than actually communicating. I hope the seme wont go running behind the uke to do ALL the work to fix it. But he probably will.

    BLOW POP SECRETS December 21, 2020 11:09 pm
    Lmao this right here is the plot of almost every wholesome yaoi that DOESN'T have rape, so I'm really curious why you would have that reaction even though you're right Fernando

    Yes this may be common but we don't know what direction a story is going exactly until it's revealed. So i had tiny hopes but this chapter just didnt deliver any progress. Hence the virtual eye roll that my comment basically was.