I agree but, once they fetishize it, it's just wrong. Most readers of yaoi are women and most of them are not on the straight side of sexuality, while on guys reading yuri, idrk the general but if str8 men started to read yuri just for the smut and to fap with.. Its just wrong.. And as a wlw it's also kinda feels uneasy, sure tho that some gays feel uncomfortable that str8 girls are reading bl that focuses on just smut - well at least for my friend
i dont quite understand either, like...all this- im a girl, and i read yuri, rarely yaoi and my friends who also read manga never had a problem with it. if a girl reads yaoi, then its fine, but if a boy reads yuri its fetishization..? dont get me wrong, im on nobodys side here, i just dont understand! how can it make the gays and lesbians uncomfy..? how is it a fetish..? please educate me (▰˘◡˘▰)
Hey oc, did you create this list for guys? The description kind of suggests you did, that's kinda wrong, and is w|w fetishization ╥﹏╥ hope you change that