i beg to differ, a different way for someone to perceive social interactions doesnt excuse them for being manipulative, entitled, and controlling of others, intentional or not, people are hurt nonetheless. apologies if this might sound most offensive, but what i understand from you is that it is okay for someone not to try to be decent, and of sound judgement, i simply disagree. minho in this case felt entitled of doonas person, he monopolised her, manipulate her feelings, he is a parade of redflag if you may, but thats my assessment
That's a very interesting point, but I'm afraid you completely misunderstood Minho's character... yes, he loved Doona and tried to "control" her by constantly asking where was she going, who was she meeting, but do you really think Minho was the one who had real control on the other in their relationship? When did he even manipulate her? If you call his unromantic behavior manipulation, then I don't think I can agree with you.
both are rapey (doona to minho specifically), and even though doona is unquestionably nobler and more decent as a person than cha wookyung, she still does that to minho. and please, minho is a victim (survivor, i hope) but it doesnt take away the fact that he is a very toxic and downright shitty person. hes not someone youd introduce to your family, or expect a stable, loving relationship with, at least not if he doesnt go to therapy and anger management counsellings. but yes, hes a victim.