Because I don't plan to start an useless fight...

Yaya December 18, 2020 4:02 pm

I will just say it without replying to anyone as to not make a "target", but just because there are hearts in the text, just because he looks like his BODY is enjoying it DOESN'T mean he WANTS it. Saying he fully knew what was going to happen is wrong too, because he went there to end things properly himself, hence why he didn't invite seme. Because I think he still had a sliver of hope his ex was not going to do shit like that.

And yes, if you think he is to blame, you are victm blaming. The one who deserves re hate is the ex and uke needs care... And also a therapist after all this shit went down.

Responses
    Oatmeal December 18, 2020 7:50 pm

    I get your POV, victim blaming is nasty business. But honestly, this situation just feels very avoidable, so I understand why people are getting mad ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    Yaya December 18, 2020 10:50 pm
    I get your POV, victim blaming is nasty business. But honestly, this situation just feels very avoidable, so I understand why people are getting mad ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ Oatmeal

    Getting mad is fine. The problem is speaking as if the victm is to blame instead of speaking of the shitty ex.

    Oatmeal December 19, 2020 3:07 am
    Getting mad is fine. The problem is speaking as if the victm is to blame instead of speaking of the shitty ex. Yaya

    Yeah that's true, victim blaming is still very pervasive in society. It's easy to point a finger at the victim who's 'enjoying' the experience and not the guy forcing it on him.