Sometimes they act like they dont want it or they really do want it but they dont want to admit it to themselves.
There are yaoi out there without rape - or what people would consider 'rape'. You just need to find them.
Or just stick to shounen-ai and stop complaining about something thats a fact by now :)
In yaoi what is often referred to as "rape" is very common. I've read over 1000 yaoi and can count the number of times I've seen consensual sex on two hands. In real life, in male homosexual sex, consent is necessary just like in hetero sex. Although rape does happen, it is not common and is not frequently reported when it does.
Readers of this genre, especially new or inexperienced readers, often fail to realize that yaoi is a genre of pornography. As such, just like with adult videos, there will often be fetishes depicted. The idea of "forced intercourse" is a popular fetish among native readers and authors of this genre. As long as a reader can separate what they read here as fiction, from what goes on in real life, there is usually no problem and the reader can enjoy the story. All gay men do not act the way characters in yaoi portray them, any more than all women act like "porn stars" in bed.
The idea of "you raped me - I love you" is used as a writing device to speed along the story and as fetish content to titillate readers. Outside of fiction this idea is pretty ludicrous. CAN it happen? Sure. DOES it happen? Not very often.
Me too. I really don't get it and I really hate that sense how that supposed to has meaning if it only rape ,and no explanations clearly . after that only say I Love U everything is clear!!!!! how could that be ????
I don't get it. Is rape one of the ways to express your life? Or the victims, how can they fall in lve with them??
Is rape really common in boy_boy relationships?