The burden

Naughty December 14, 2020 11:01 am

How I wish I didn't miss my kid's show when she was in kindergarten because of work?! It is so regretful. Even if I grow old, I'll never forget her face when a arrived late and she knew I wasn't able to watch her. That was a big mistake and it still pains me til now.

Responses
    Fonnie December 14, 2020 11:30 am

    at least you were there.... my mom wasnt there at all... even my graduation ceremonies TT^TT

    Naughty December 14, 2020 11:53 am
    at least you were there.... my mom wasnt there at all... even my graduation ceremonies TT^TT Fonnie

    That's too bad. Work is important but childhood only comes once. No one can turn back time so missing something in their life is melancholic. Maybe they haven't realized it yet or maybe she's already in pain but doesn't show it.

    Fonnie December 14, 2020 12:00 pm
    That's too bad. Work is important but childhood only comes once. No one can turn back time so missing something in their life is melancholic. Maybe they haven't realized it yet or maybe she's already in pain bu... Naughty

    idk.. maybe... i cant ask her about it anymore since she passed away like 10 years ago... but my dad does want me in his life... but since he has a family on his own i dont wanna be a burden to them. i guess im just not used to having a real dad cu before this i was raised by my aunt, after that raised by my grandma and after i moved in with my mom and the creep of a stepfather. i can relate to much with jun and yul TT^TT

    Naughty December 14, 2020 12:39 pm
    idk.. maybe... i cant ask her about it anymore since she passed away like 10 years ago... but my dad does want me in his life... but since he has a family on his own i dont wanna be a burden to them. i guess im... Fonnie

    Ohh... I'm so sorry.
    Everyone has their own story... I can't relate much but I understand.
    For me, I'm just trying my best.
    I grew up almost with no father and now, I'm a single mom, so, I have to raise my child on my own too.
    And talking about creepy stepfather... I already set myself not to get one coz I have a beautiful daughter. She's the only reason why I'm alive and work so hard.

    Fonnie December 14, 2020 1:42 pm
    Ohh... I'm so sorry.Everyone has their own story... I can't relate much but I understand. For me, I'm just trying my best. I grew up almost with no father and now, I'm a single mom, so, I have to raise my child... Naughty

    it must have been tough for you. being a single mother isnt easy and i admire you for it. i used to work at daycares so i know its not easy to take care of kids. even tho you dont want to get a stepfather for your daughter but when the time is right and both you and your daughter accept him you shouldnt let him go. both of you deserve to be happy.
    i might not know much about being a mother but im sure someday your daughter might want you to be happy with someone too.... for me it was just bad luck... but it just sad that my mom wasnt on my side when i told her its uncomfortable having a stepfather touching my butt as a child... and he would enter my room when i was changing...