One of the reasons I really hate yaoi sometimes is they treat rape so lightly, you don't get over rape That easily. They treat rape like something easy to get over. It’s not.
I agree that authors do that but I'd like to say that some people do get over them easily, some even have the mindset of "so that happened, eh whatever" and then they carry on with their life like nothing happened.
One of the reasons I really hate yaoi sometimes is they treat rape so lightly, you don't get over rape That easily. They treat rape like something easy to get over. It’s not.