I mean nothing excuses what Chowon has done but Dojun’s treated him
horribly. His straight indifference and neglect was outright cruel when he knew exactly the mental issues faced by his spouse. He just lacked all compassion for him because he didn’t want to be bothered with someone he wasn’t interested in. But that made Chowon feel he wasn’t just right “he’s perfect, but not perfect in the right way”, something he’s heard all his life and caused him to lash out to seek attention. I’m not saying Dojun is responsible for Chowon, but he clearly had a role in Chowon’s spiral because he didn’t respect Chowon enough to give him closure.
Took the words right out of my mouth. Whether or not the marriage was arranged, he should have his feelings on the table instead of being a passive aggressive piece of shit like i know Chowon must have thought again and again that he was unworthy of his attention and affection because of the wall Dojun put up between them...
Im happy for Chowon but Dojun owes him an apology for how he treated him thoughout their marriage....