So I'm really trying hard to like Ninomiya, but I just find his obsessive jealousy disturb...

Nataruma December 11, 2020 8:12 am

So I'm really trying hard to like Ninomiya, but I just find his obsessive jealousy disturbing. He wants to isolate Ryo from anyone and everyone he perceives as a threat, he bullies Ryo constantly, is constantly putting him in embarrassing and inappropriate situations, and the way the author makes it seem like Ryo likes it comes off as them making excuses so people won't call out the shitty behaviour of their character. I just think Ninomiya is pretty abusive and I find it difficult to like how he behaves around Ryo or any potential threats to their relationship. But two thumbs way way up for the stranger in the bar who did the right thing and stopped his advances when he realised something was off about Ryo. However, Ninomiya fucked Ryo in his sleep... Without consent... Many times... I just... I don't know. He's a controlling creep to me, and I think Ryo just deserves better.

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    Saphfire December 21, 2020 11:20 am

    How far have you read? I mean, he's still kind of possessive but he's much better now and is really trying to be there for Ryo through everything.

    Nataruma December 21, 2020 12:13 pm
    How far have you read? I mean, he's still kind of possessive but he's much better now and is really trying to be there for Ryo through everything. Saphfire

    Glad to hear that he seems to improve, I still don't like the possessive streak. I'm not sure where I finished reading up to, somewhere around when Ninomiya hugs Ryo in his spirit form to comfort him. That's also kind of another problem I had with this manhwa, just the whole spirit fucking and all of that was just not my cup of tea.

    Saphfire December 21, 2020 2:03 pm
    Glad to hear that he seems to improve, I still don't like the possessive streak. I'm not sure where I finished reading up to, somewhere around when Ninomiya hugs Ryo in his spirit form to comfort him. That's al... Nataruma

    Yeah that hasn't even happened in so long now. At least a few chapters. Lol. They mostly just do it in person always now. You should give it another chance, I say. I'm trying to be unbiased but I love it lol. I started uploading it because I love Ryo so much and their relationship gets better.

    Nataruma December 22, 2020 8:20 am
    Yeah that hasn't even happened in so long now. At least a few chapters. Lol. They mostly just do it in person always now. You should give it another chance, I say. I'm trying to be unbiased but I love it lol. I... Saphfire

    Oh my goodness no by all means everyone should like what they like! I just have a certain taste ;3 but I will try and get back into it and see how it goes I do like 'bully' type tops but ones that hold genuine love and affection for their partners, but Ninomiya just bugged me cause I kept thinking "Dude, chill, he's like not even doing anything with anyone else." I guess it was just laid on too hard for my personal taste in the beginning, but I'll read some more!

    Saphfire December 22, 2020 9:43 am
    Oh my goodness no by all means everyone should like what they like! I just have a certain taste ;3 but I will try and get back into it and see how it goes I do like 'bully' type tops but ones that hold genuine... Nataruma

    You're not wrong. He's still a bully to him in the bedroom for sure. He is super in love with him but if it's not something you don't like, I can't blame you lol. I dont think I would like to be treated like that in real life.