Kimin is a sick person and the relation IS abusing

Team Vasco December 10, 2020 3:30 pm

For everyone that is still doubting or on the fence, Kimin IS EXTREMELY TOXIC, this whole relationship is wrong and the reason lots of you are getting chills because of Kimin is because your brain knows this is wrong, Kimin seems to be the kind of guy that would kill to get his way, this isn’t okay at all.

Guys just because this manga have a pink filter and warm art doesn’t make him less toxic, one example of the type of person Kimin is Keum (the enamored stalker) from down and dirty, but Kimin is worse because he is very aggressive, manipulative and way more insistent.

Please beware of these type o characters, you can read it but never let yourself think this type of relationship is ok, this is an abusive relationship

Responses
    Sayder December 10, 2020 3:32 pm

    Completely agree, I always have to keep reading cause deep down I always hope something will change but ughhh he's just so damn horrible and I hate him and idk why the MC even likes him >:( He better change right quick or else imma grab my pitchforks

    Soho December 10, 2020 3:41 pm
    Completely agree, I always have to keep reading cause deep down I always hope something will change but ughhh he's just so damn horrible and I hate him and idk why the MC even likes him >:( He better change ... Sayder

    ok so i indeed do agree people should stay away from toxic people theyre horrible and they can fuck up your life. But you gotta realize its manhwa its not real and its for your entertainment, so if you dont like it drop it dont taint and be rude because you dont like something. I myself am a author and i dont like seeing rude comments because they dont really like or find something wrong with my comment. So yes i do agree with being toxic is wrong, but its entertainment and reading dont like dont read

    Sayder December 10, 2020 4:01 pm
    ok so i indeed do agree people should stay away from toxic people theyre horrible and they can fuck up your life. But you gotta realize its manhwa its not real and its for your entertainment, so if you dont li... Soho

    It's not "rude" to critique someone's work lol. Writing stories like this can be damaging, especially to young readers who find their way here. You can like reading something and still recognize what's wrong with it. In fact, I'd say it's quite important to point out these toxic stereotypical relationships often portrayed in manga, because you never know who's going to read these types of stories without realizing what about this relationship is wrong. It's important to think critically about the things you consume and discuss them with others instead of turning a blind eye.

    Sayder December 10, 2020 4:04 pm
    ok so i indeed do agree people should stay away from toxic people theyre horrible and they can fuck up your life. But you gotta realize its manhwa its not real and its for your entertainment, so if you dont li... Soho

    And if you actually are an author, you would know to take people's comments about your works into consideration. Ignoring what people think about a work and labeling them "rude" is immature and irresponsible.

    BALDJUSTIN December 10, 2020 4:08 pm

    WHAT I BEEN SAYINGGG ty u took the words right out of my mouth

    Soho December 10, 2020 4:09 pm
    It's not "rude" to critique someone's work lol. Writing stories like this can be damaging, especially to young readers who find their way here. You can like reading something and still recognize what's wrong wi... Sayder

    Did you not just read what I said and instead just take what you want? You ofc its good to give feedback, and recognize what's bad, and to know you shouldn't be around people. But it's not ok to defame a writer or artist just because they put that type in their works. And we don't turn a so-called blind eye thank you very much. It's for your entertainment, we don't always get paid for this nor do we always get people viewing our work, and we can be sensitive with what people say because we're misunderstood. Just because we write or draw it doesn't mean we approve of it, So please take that to mind. So if you don't fucking approve don't fucking read and move on. We as writers and artist don't need that we already have more than enough to worry about and don't have time for comments like these, yes its good to give your opinions but when it defames our work, we dont need those cruel comments thank you (⌒▽⌒)

    Soho December 10, 2020 4:09 pm
    It's not "rude" to critique someone's work lol. Writing stories like this can be damaging, especially to young readers who find their way here. You can like reading something and still recognize what's wrong wi... Sayder

    so excuse me if I get a little senstive

    Sayder December 10, 2020 4:58 pm
    Did you not just read what I said and instead just take what you want? You ofc its good to give feedback, and recognize what's bad, and to know you shouldn't be around people. But it's not ok to defame a writer... Soho

    Lololol nobody is "defaming" this manga wtf xD It's like you didn't even read anything we've said. Criticism is something all artists should expect and even be glad to see - it means people are interested in their work and want to help them improve. An artist telling readers only to give opinions they agree with means they have no interest in and probably never will improve their writing, and eventually they'll hit a wall and won't be able to create things people enjoy. No one is being rude. No one is "defaming" this manga. We like this manga. All we are doing is discussing the problematic relationship. How can you say "it's good to give feedback" in one sentence and then try to silence a discussion in the next? That kind of thinking is counterintuitive to any professional artist's work.

    Soho December 10, 2020 5:24 pm

    i didnt mean defaming as the original word, it was the only one i can think of ( ̄へ ̄)I'm just saying we dont always want to hear comments like those, i can be hurtful sometimes, im not saying you cant give feedback im trying to say be careful or your words

    Soho December 10, 2020 5:33 pm

    *it
    QAQ i cant spell no more, and i got deadlines (/TДT)/ im so behind

    Team Vasco December 10, 2020 11:40 pm
    It's not "rude" to critique someone's work lol. Writing stories like this can be damaging, especially to young readers who find their way here. You can like reading something and still recognize what's wrong wi... Sayder

    Completely agree, this isn’t a “DONT READ THIS MANGA” comment, is a “please beware that this is not how things should be in real relationship”, it’s a warning and a reminder, there are lots of kids who read these content, it’s important to let them know that this should only be seen as tolerable in fiction.

    A crazy, manipulative, controlling, obsessive boyfriend isn’t cute, yet it was all I wanted when I was a teen because the books I used to read portrayed this as manly and hot.

    You can read whatever you want to read, just keep this in mind.

    Team Vasco December 10, 2020 11:57 pm
    ok so i indeed do agree people should stay away from toxic people theyre horrible and they can fuck up your life. But you gotta realize its manhwa its not real and its for your entertainment, so if you dont li... Soho

    This comment was so unnecessary and out of place it hurts, nobody needs to drop a book because They don’t like one character and they can sure voice their dislike about that character, nobody cursed the author so I don’t understand why you felt the need to give those two cents.

    If you don’t like to see comments on why we dislike the Mc take your own advice and don’t read them, nobody was rude and like you said, this is for entertainment, it’s fiction and the one being criticized is the fictional character, so unless the character is doing something that you condone or appreciate on the real life therefore it hurts to see people disliking it, please leave because again you are being unnecessary.

    Let us remind people of the importance of separating fiction from reality, and to identify and reject toxic behavior irl in peace.

    Soho December 11, 2020 12:13 am

    i get that you dont like how i phrased what i said but its true, if you dont like something dont read it its as simple as that. You dont eat foods you dont like right? then dont read tropes and things you dont like, sorry if i sound like a bitch or im saying something unnecessary but it needed to be said

    Sayder December 11, 2020 5:57 am
    This comment was so unnecessary and out of place it hurts, nobody needs to drop a book because They don’t like one character and they can sure voice their dislike about that character, nobody cursed the autho... Team Vasco

    Ikr! Young minds are so impressionable. I remember reading the Twilight series as a kid and putting that relationship on a pedestal...but as an adult looking back, that too was an unhealthily portrayed relationship. But nobody told me that then, I only really realized after watching a professional psychoanalyze the relationship. And damn do I hate people who say "don't like it don't read it". Reminds me of all the "if you don't like this country then leave" people. You can't create change or make a difference by walking away. Same reason I read news articles from multiple sources - even ones who hold opinions I disagree with!