this reminded me of my dead grandma

mafumafu December 10, 2020 2:00 pm

it hurts cuz i missed the funeral when i was in the city for highschool
one day my dad called me and told me that grandma died last night and we are at the funeral come home for the funeral they sent my cousin to pick me up from my place and all this time i was literally confused sad and my emotions were a mess
i couldnt cry in front of ppl but at night i cried myself to sleep she even appeared in my dream idk why i shared this thing but this chapter was painful to read

Responses
    Wormington21 December 11, 2020 1:40 am

    I feel ya. I missed my grandmother's funeral. I just had my daughter and my daughter was only 4 days old when they had the funeral. I gave birth the day she passed away. I went into labor 2 weeks early because of the stress of her having a stroke. My the youngest grandchild of her, and I was about to have my first child. She made it until my child was born then she passed away. I was like she hung on until he youngest grandchild had her youngest great grandchild. My daughter is now almost 11 months old. I truly believe she has a grandmother's soul. She is so sweet just like my grandmother. TДT

    mafumafu December 11, 2020 6:37 am
    I feel ya. I missed my grandmother's funeral. I just had my daughter and my daughter was only 4 days old when they had the funeral. I gave birth the day she passed away. I went into labor 2 weeks early because ... Wormington21

    im so sorry for ur loss..............its not like we can keep ppl whom we love, around us forever.we should let them go at one point. hope u r fine now and sorry i just didnt know how to respond to u as i have never consoled anyone before
    i hope ur daughter is healthy, happy and always smiling.im pretty sure she will be a great person like her grandmother when she grows up

    call me senpie December 13, 2020 6:27 pm
    I feel ya. I missed my grandmother's funeral. I just had my daughter and my daughter was only 4 days old when they had the funeral. I gave birth the day she passed away. I went into labor 2 weeks early because ... Wormington21

    Oh my god. I had a similar story. I was pregnant for 6months old and suddenly dreamt of her in pain, at 4am. The next morning I called my mom and she said my grandma can hardly breathe at 2.30am (which is 3.30am at my place) but she was okay after that. I videocall-ed her for few times until she can't really reply a lot (she was just listening to me). Then, during my 8months-old pregnancy she passed away. I still remember I went out eating with my husband and my mom said my grandma passed away. I remember trying to hold my tears bc I'm in public. I was so upset bc it was like a few weeks left before I gave birth and she said she was so excited to have a twin grandchildren. I miss her a lot. This chapter makes me so sad ;~; *group hugs, ppl*