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Meant to downvote, sorry

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It's the you invalidating male victims for me :)

i really am not, for me a victim is just a victim gender doesn't play a role in if you are a victim or not. we are equals under the law and under our own morality. we are equals but not the same, women's body has more fat then mans that is why they shouldn't drink as much(google it). biologically we are not the same. if a man gets raped by a woman he wouldn't get internal injuries(unless she is a fucking sadist and pegged him). we are biologically different but we are also raised differently, men learn not to show emotion and not to be weak that is why many men have a hard time with there mental health and it is also why they find cancer much later because they don't go to the doctor intel it is late. women and men need to fight against these things.
we are physically diffrent, that was my point but you read what you wanna read.

My guy I wasn't talking about any of that. I already know that. Im talking about you saying "you see how he walked away when he wants to for me that is the difference a girl can rarely pin a guy down, a guy can almost always pin a girl down". That is you invalidating male victims because that is saying that all they have to do is walk away when they don't want it. They cannot always do that. The reaction to a situation like that is not as simple as "walking away" it is psychological.

No, i am saying Most of them are physically strong enough to walk away. Some of us don't have that option. I'm not invalidating jack shit buy stating facts, i didn't say that it was his fault if he didn't take that option, that is something you analyse your way to.

And as ive said, they dont always have the option to walk away. That was my hole point. You saying that most do have that option is invalidating them because people saying that is one of the reasons why lots of people don't speak up about being victims.

But they physically can

It doesn't mean it is their fault if they don't

But it doesn’t matter if they’re physically stronger if they’re “weak” mentally. Some people get paralyzed by fear or force themselves to let it happen because they’ve been gaslight, manipulated, etc. So to simply say, “a guy can always almost pin down a girl” in this kind of situation, invalidates male victims. Now that is a true statement but it’s insensitive to say especially when a victim has been psychologically manipulated like Yul. Whenever he rejects Havi she throws fits or manipulates him into doing sexual things. She constantly forces himself on him and he accepts it because he doesn’t want to disappoint her even though he clearly shows that he doesn't want to. So I don’t understand what was the point of making this comment.

No you don't get it we all can get paralyzed, but i just pointing out that some if they get through being paralyzed can run away, some if they get through this they can't run away.

You know what I am saying is true, but you are tallying not to say it because "invalidates male victims" witch is something you Feel. Look her agree that there is a psychological aspect to this. I'm just pointing out there is also a physical aspect to this which is true and you even admitted. I'm not going to stop telling a facts just because you feel like I'm saying is something it's a very much not.

To be honest, I disagree with you as well. What if there were a physically strong girl and a physically weak boy, and the guy keeps trying to harass her, do you believe that she could force him away and leave? Also, you know that Yul wouldn't use force to push her off because he is too kind and doesn't want to disappoint her or make her leave.

Also, since it hasn't actually mentioned that Yul works out, he may just have the muscles but not the strength, skill or force to actually push her away considering she's actually shown to be very strong physically.

That is way i always write most never have i said all boys, you see what i mean with you read what you wanna hear.

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What you wanna read*

I'm not only reading what I want to read, All I'm saying is that even if you didn't put 'all boys', you might have that opinion, I was asking for your opinion, not for you to tell me that you weren't generalising.

Sorry i was on an attacking mood, that is not fair of me. I didn't understand your question. I'm dyslexic so can plz reformulate the question.

Ah, it's okay. I don't really even understand myself anymore so how about we agree to disagree

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