╥﹏╥hope you and your son are feeling alright right now. it was sad even reading your comment ╥﹏╥
Oh we are fine now. My son is in his 20s, now. But thank you.
I don't trust yul's dad but i also don't see yul's dad have any bad intentions yet because not all divorced parents are bad. But for some cases, child will have a trauma if someone make a rejection either psychically or mentally. your son probably saw his bio dad didn't like him and it hurt him so much he doesnt want to meet him again. hope your son will feel better.
your son is 20s?????
Just keep that in mind for future chapters. Because I have a feeling that you will be changing your mind. Even if he has no ill intentions, it will NOT excuse his actions.
And my son is fine now. It gradually just turned into total disinterest in his dad. But thank you.
Yes. I am an “old” fujoshi in her late 40s, who still looked 18 not even 10 years ago. LOL (I kid you not. I got carded at check-in at an anime convention because the staff didn’t think I was old enough for over 18/21 events. And even a few years before that, as my son and I waited for my mom in the car as she went into a Panera, someone yelled at her for “leaving her two young kids in the care alone. ROFLMAO!!!!!).
i kinda understand. i'm closer with my bio-dad's sister and mother than i am with my dad. my parents divorced when i was still in single digits. i did visit him every now and then - but me, my mom, my brother, and some of our family moved out of state and then i only saw my dad on holiday breaks.
eventually i told my dad i didn't wanna visit him anymore (for many reasons) when i was around 12 and didn't see him again until he popped by for a visit when i was 16 and i haven't seen him again since then. though i see my dad's sister and mom whenever i visit my family that's still in Michigan (my birth state).
btw i'm 29 now so 13 years since i've seen my dad. and only 2 years since i've seen his mom and sister.
glad to know, and no worries
I do not and will not trust Yul’s bio-dad. And the food stall scene did NOT help. When my son was 7, he met his dad for the first time. He went to the zoo with his dad, his dad’s brother (who was a few years older than my son), his younger half-brother (through his dad), and my mom. My son, who had always wanted to meet his dad before and loved him unconditionally, even though his dad never showed an interest in him before), tried several times to get his dad’s attention, but it wasn’t until my mom called out on my son’s behalf that his dad noticed. A visit that essentially lasted an entire weekend (and also included his dad’s parents, my son’s other grandparents), and while the rest of his dad’s family showed interest in him, including his uncle and half-brother showed interest in my son and treated him wonderfully, his dad was more interested in trying to sweet talk me (pisses me off to this day). After that visit, my son and I became close to all of his dad’s family, but my son never showed any interest in his father again (and it broke my heart, because he broke my son’s heart and I never wanted him to feel any negative feelings towards his dad). Even now, he is closer to his dad’s siblings and his own half-siblings and their moms, than to his own father. That scene hit too close to home and sooner or later Yul will realize that his father is not as interested in him as he pretends to be. And it saddens me that Yul will have his heart broken by his bio-dad.