i mean i can take a little aggressiveness and roughness (like man-handling), but nuh uhhh you DON'T tell me to "shut up" during sex. too negative, and too much of a sadist. he put kiumi down a lot, and that was kind of a turn off. i'm sure that floats some folks' boats, but i prefer gentle, loving and down-to-earth kinda guys. (well NOW i do, anyway. made some mistakes in the past of course...)
Exactly, it didn't sit right with me either. I mean i like it rough and i can deal with my partner being aggressive but that doesn't mean you get to treat me like shit. You can be rough and aggressive while being gentle. But idk, to each their own i guess.
i mean i can take a little aggressiveness and roughness (like man-handling), but nuh uhhh you DON'T tell me to "shut up" during sex. too negative, and too much of a sadist. he put kiumi down a lot, and that was kind of a turn off. i'm sure that floats some folks' boats, but i prefer gentle, loving and down-to-earth kinda guys. (well NOW i do, anyway. made some mistakes in the past of course...)