But is being interested the same thing as what Hwi has for Param? Hwi is in love but like accepting a date is not the same thing. I accept dates from men who I just want to get to know as well. It doesnât mean I am in love with them.
He didn't even think of Hwi after he had sex with Mr. Han
waaaaiit i dont understand. PARAM CALLED MR. HAN NAME
Param and Hwiâs relationship is past just getting to know each other. If Param doesnât have feelings for Hwi he should have been upfront about it.
Definitely agree. But I'm hoping Hwi will not be the end game lol. He needs so sort his shits cuz its literally every where
No. I disagree. You could say Param never made it clear that he did have feelings for Hwi. Everyone knows that Param has feelings for his boss. Did we miss this part? Even Hwi said itâs an unreciprocated love to the woman in the gym. He knows Param does not like him that way and that deeply, at least not as of yet. Accepting a date doesnât mean that Param is now his.
I would date someone who I was confused about, yes. Iâm not perfect and sometimes, people date to make things clearer and figure things out. This is life. Itâs not cruel because I donât owe him anything. Dating is done for the sole purpose of making things clearer.
He's drunk I think. And he's calling mr. han's name while having sex but yeah my heart's broke for hwi.
But dating someone just to justify your feelings is so disrespectful when you can tell who like, unless the other party agreed to it. You don't owe them but you should atleast respect them and take their feelings for consideration. I know everyone's not perfect but being sensitive and considerate wouldn't hurt. If you have someone who you like and someone whom you are confused with then think about it properly, don't take their feelings lightly and agree to date anyone for the sole purpose of making your feelings clear.
He does not know and is unsure.
SERIOUSLY WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN?!? IS THIS AN UPCOMING CHPT
I think this is a cultural clash. So, in many cultures, such as Korea and US, people can date multiple people and itâs not seen as inconsiderate and âcruel.â As long as the relationship is not set and confirmed to be exclusive, people can date more than one person. This is how people find the person they want to be with. In Paramâs case, he wasnât being rude for accepting a date from Hwi. Mainly because he knows itâs just going on a date. Many times, you make the other person happy and itâs not taking the other personâs feelings lightly because again, the relationship is not confirmed and you didnât say you like them. I know in Korean culture, confessing ones feelings and dating are two very different things.
In terms of going on a date with someone who I know likes me, I think why not if there is a possibility that there might be something more down the line? Thatâs why I want to date, so we can see if itâs going to work out. Love does not rush and love is not possession.
No. Chap. 20 onwards
Ohh. I see, it's fun having to know others culture when it comes to dating. So you can have sexual intercourse to those you have been dating?
Yeah, so as long as you two have not confirmed that you are in a relationship then the other person is allowed to date and have sex with other people. Once two people decide that they are in an exclusive relationship (Boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands/wives/ lovers) then itâs really bad if you have sex with other people.
Of course different cultures have different ways of looking at it. But that doesnât mean everyone thinks like that.
Btw Iâm team Hwi!
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Yes, thatâs way I said it depends on the culture. I know that in some cultures, this is horrible lol
Ohhh I see, Actually in my culture it can be considered as cheating. but yeah its fun having to know others culture. Thank for telling me ^^
I just hate the fact that Hwi is just an option he's just that someone who will be there when param will break his heart bcoz of han even though he's breaking too. I hate the fact that param didn't take Hwi's feelings seriously. Param should've made it clear that he has no feelings for hwi and its just purely sex but he didn't. And I reaaallllyy hate the fact that I will see Hwi's pained expression when he learned that something happened to param and han. My heart breaks at the thought of that. I know they started as fuck buddies and hwi knew that he has feeling for han but pleasee, param clearly disrespect hwi for that matter. And I therefore conclude that Hwi's might not be the end game. And I'll gladly accept that ending with my whole being