Yessss! I feel the same!
oh sorry I clicked the wrong button, I fully agree with you
dojin only fell in love with him after he was pregnant (and unwanted pregnancy) and that's all it took for people to love him aand being cool with what he did yet hyesung is the childish and annoying one when he was clearly in such a low mental state and now chowon can't be forgiven but heeso and chowon's ex are angels?
funny how omegaverse is fantasy yet irl people still seem to hold the omegas to a higher standard that the rest and can't spare them the sympathy they have for others
"just checking on his health would have been the right thig to do if his feeling for him were actually deep"
Hard disagree. If you've ever dated anyone with borderline/histronic characteristics, suicide attempts after breakup are one of the flagship ways of manipulation of trying to lure the other person back into the relationship by creating a sense of obligation to stay in touch because "I almost died, you should at least come meet me if you REALLY CARE".
If you're not going to get back together with the person, leaving them be is 100% the best option for both of your well-being to not create toxic dependency after the attempt. You can care and conclude staying away is the best option without suddenly your feelings being invalid. Plus, facing someone you love after a suicide attempt is rough. If he was not ready for it I do think it's shitty to moralize him for prioritizing his own well-being. He owes Chowon absolutely nothing
yesssss
lol i'm the "crazy" person that was abandoned and stigmatized so i understand pretty clearly everything that's going on, i really don't care for the ship kyungso is the only innocent character after all and has the right to walk away but checking on someone you care about's health is the bare minimum it's not showing weaknes is just having a little empathy unless once again the feeling weren't there
i'm totally ok with them not working out since what chowon needs rn isn't romance and maybe people just need to accept that they aren't meant for each other
Well he did hear that Chowon's alive and he did express concern by asking for details but he ultimately decided that not seeing him is for the best which, if he doesn't plan on getting together with Chowon, is the more merciful option for him as well. It's not a sign of weakness to walk away. He knows Chowon is alive and decided he shouldn't get involved with him any longer and that's fine. I've been that person who went to see an ex after she tried to kill herself and it started a very nasty cycle of me feeling obliged to care for her and her ODing every time I left her. In the end, the only way to cut that was to refuse to see her anymore, even when she was at the hospital and well, I guess I lack empathy then.
Might be why this story is called "Love is an Illusion" lol
THANK YOU!! Everyone was so quick to forgive literally ever other character and their shitting actions. Dojin was horrible, Dojun was an apathetic ass, and Heeso did bad things but people are only hating on Chowon?? The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
I think everyone needs to go back and reread this from the beginning.
absolutely people holding chowon to the highest standards and wishing him death for wanting to do the things the other characters actually did and got no hate for
gonna say it again, people only seem to develop a moral compass to condemn chowon for his actions but said moral compass was nowhere to be found when dojin raped hyesung and when heeso took advantage of hyesung's post partum depression and his deplorable mental state to fool him and dojin and manipulating them to keep them appart nearly killing them in the process since they were bonded and all bc he's a control freak, hate them all or don't hate anyone but the only ones who never hurt anyone on purpose was kyungso and buyl lol
also idc for the chowon kyugnso ship either cuz tho being totally entitled to his feelings and them being totally justified kyungso decided not to check on chowon's health when he nearly died, i didn't expect him to go and swipe him off his feet and elope into a romantic escapade but just checking on his health would have been the right thig to do if his feeling for him were actually deep, more than romance chowon needs a support system that worries about his well being and is there to motivate him to get better for himself.
in the end the only characters i feel deep compassion for are hyesung and chowon, both were going through severe episodes of their respective mental illness when they made their mistakes and still pushed through to do the right thing yet they get the least sympathy but what was the other characters excuse to be shitty? non yet they are inmediately forgiven for all the horrible shit they did