she's not really infertile, since the reasoning of the doctor as to why she is infertile is 'irregular menstruation' . but I get what you mean.
No suffering is greater or lesser than another's.
I think it is a little insensitive but you have to see it from where she's coming from. She's basically a man. She couldn't even understand the joys of having tea with other girls because she was stripped of that from a young age. Her position as a knight from when she was a child and the things she had to do to survive in a male dominated workplace at the young age probably caused most of her lack of knowledge in the women department as a woman herself. At most, Pauliana just doesn't understand it.
Oh, I meant insensitive to Pauliana, not the other way around ╥﹏╥
Is it just me or is it a ~bit~ tone deaf to tell an infertile woman she’s not being sympathetic enough to someone’s phantom pregnancy?