Honestly (again)

LUMINOUS December 2, 2020 4:15 pm

Kyungsoo does not love chowon , and I strongly believe that, because no matter what the other person did , even if u do not forgive them , if they almost died , and you do not even ask about them once , then you do not actually care about them. He didn't break an arm or leg, he overdosed.

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    Ami December 2, 2020 4:27 pm

    He also has just realized he barely knows Chowon. We the reader know much more about him that Kyungsoo does. He didn't want to see him hurt, cuz he was probably afraid he'd go and immediately feel bad - instead of holding true to the line he drew about the abusive behavior.
    That being said, now that Chowon is clearly expressing and acting on a desire to change - I hope he'll go see him again. Cuz it's different if he is trying to better himself, instead of going off about how he didn't do anything wrong. Kyungsoo doesn't know the level of Chowon's baggage we do. He was doing what he had to do to take a stance and say he wasn't okay with abusive behavior. So sorry, liked your comment when I meant to dislike.

    "No matter what the other person did"? No. No amount of loving someone should give them a pass to be abusive towards others or you. I hope he gives him a second chance now that he's trying to change, but abuse does not get a *pass* cuz of love. Period.

    LUMINOUS December 2, 2020 4:30 pm
    He also has just realized he barely knows Chowon. We the reader know much more about him that Kyungsoo does. He didn't want to see him hurt, cuz he was probably afraid he'd go and immediately feel bad - instead... Ami

    He is mentally ill, he almost died. I am not saying he should forgive him , but checking up on him , giving him a call? And I didn't say abuse should get a pass because of love , I did not say he should forgive him. He almost died!

    LUMINOUS December 2, 2020 4:32 pm
    He is mentally ill, he almost died. I am not saying he should forgive him , but checking up on him , giving him a call? And I didn't say abuse should get a pass because of love , I did not say he should forgive... LUMINOUS

    But * , checking up on someone doesn't equal forgiveness .

    akarigalaxy- December 2, 2020 4:37 pm
    He is mentally ill, he almost died. I am not saying he should forgive him , but checking up on him , giving him a call? And I didn't say abuse should get a pass because of love , I did not say he should forgive... LUMINOUS

    I like your comment and i just wana add
    Chowon didnt break the leg of that person it was an accident and they didn't belive him they thought he ordered his man to do so since he was madly in love and so jealous
    (TДT)

    Ami December 2, 2020 4:41 pm
    He is mentally ill, he almost died. I am not saying he should forgive him , but checking up on him , giving him a call? And I didn't say abuse should get a pass because of love , I did not say he should forgive... LUMINOUS

    Saying from the POV of Kyungsoo not Chowon - if I saw someone I'd cared for injured I'd immediately be weak to them and whatever they said. Kyungsoo KNEW that, and didn't want to open himself up to that position. He didn't say he'd never see him again, but that he couldn't see him "like that."

    Also Kyungsoo doesn't know as much about Chowon's mental illness. Hell, he may not know at all. That's all stuff we as the reader know. Kyungsoo has no idea.

    Ami December 2, 2020 4:42 pm
    I like your comment and i just wana add Chowon didnt break the leg of that person it was an accident and they didn't belive him they thought he ordered his man to do so since he was madly in love and so jeal... akarigalaxy-

    He was also saying it was an accident in a bout of mania....where he also said he still loved Dojun so like...clearly unreliable narration. He definitely deliberately ordered Heesoo to be raped though?

    akarigalaxy- December 2, 2020 4:46 pm
    He was also saying it was an accident in a bout of mania....where he also said he still loved Dojun so like...clearly unreliable narration. He definitely deliberately ordered Heesoo to be raped though? Ami

    Not really

    akarigalaxy- December 2, 2020 4:46 pm
    He was also saying it was an accident in a bout of mania....where he also said he still loved Dojun so like...clearly unreliable narration. He definitely deliberately ordered Heesoo to be raped though? Ami

    At first he orderd them to get him heesoo not to rape him

    Ami December 2, 2020 5:03 pm
    At first he orderd them to get him heesoo not to rape him akarigalaxy-

    He...he literally then changed the order by saying "I'll pay you triple" - it doesn't matter where it started - he was going to pay them to rape him. They forced him to take a drug in order to rape him. How are you going to straight up deny what happened?

    Like I'm not even saying Chowon doesn't deserve to find love but oh my god how are you denying what he did wrong???