NO NO FUCK LORA!!!

That's what you call reality

yeah i know but i can dream... ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Oh well at least they're all happy in the end tho

I understand where you’re coming from in your second statement where you don’t see a problem with Jaehee and Jin Shik dating because they are both at a maturity level where they can decide who they want to be with. But I also think that you shouldn’t bash or minimize the internal struggle that Lora went through. Saying “Oh I know she was abused but I would have ....” is just plain wrong. There is no reason you should undermine someone else’s struggle just because you think you know the answer to it. There are so many different factors that affected the way Lora reacted and why she did what she did. First of all, when she accidentally blurted out what she did and broke up with Jin Shik, she was literally a child. She accidentally panicked and said the first thing that came to her head because she was never aware of how deep and hurtful those words were to Jin Shik. I’m pretty sure she would’ve never said it if she understood the trauma it would’ve caused Jin Shik. Second of all, she was raised in a mysogynistic household where everything she did while exploring her love life made her a whore and got her slut shamed by her mom. Her mom also forced her to believe that the only way she would be happy was marrying a rich man. Waking up everyday while seeing your mom miserable would probably be enough to make her think that what her mother said was real. She saw this everyday from a young child till the day she left that house. She probably thought that if she divorced her ex-husband she would have nothing left and fall into her mother’s miserable state. In the end, you see her realizing that it was all a false narrative that her mom forced her to believe. She literally had a mental breakdown after realizing that living with that internalized misogyny her mom forced her to believe was never the path to happiness and she wishes she had lived her own path.

In all honesty I don’t care who Jaehee ended up with because I literally love both dynamics equally as the other but there is no reason to bash Lora because she got “in the way.” Do you really think that Jin Shik and Jaehee were going to last if Jin Shik was still holding onto bits and pieces of feelings for Lora? You can’t sit there and tell me Jin Shik didn’t because they would not have lasted this long if all Jin Shik had for her was pity. He also didn’t seem to regret his decision or look miserable with the choice he made. Please be a little bit more open minded to others. I know this is fictional but those who have gone through similar experiences could read your comment and blame themselves for some things that were embedded into them by other people’s manipulative tactics.

I understand, I'll just delete the comment if it made you feel a certain way, I didn't mean it like that and I apologize. My comments is proof that I'm immature, and still have a long way to go. Thank you for your feed back! No Hard Feelings I appreciate your comments!

No, you’re all good! I also didn’t mean to come across as attacking you or anything. The fact that you can understand and acknowledge others is a sign of maturity! I had just read a lot of comments about Lora so I just wanted issue my opinion on the subject. I’m glad you didn’t assume that I was coming across as rude and can instead agree there is no ill intention on either side!

Great, I'm glad that we understand each others opinions!ヾ(☆▽☆)