I..... can't believe he slept with 3 concubines......like.....yeah, I thought I was readin...

Ryu November 30, 2020 5:37 am

I..... can't believe he slept with 3 concubines......like.....yeah, I thought I was reading a monogamous fantasy novel -___-"

that shit stung yo.

at this point in time, the innocent romantic fangirling feelings I have, had decreased since I feel sorta disappointed that we're following a medieval polygamous ML.... like tf, I thought he was a romantic, but I guess he's more a pragmatic.

So disappointed (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

but Imma still read.

Responses
    bumblebee November 30, 2020 6:09 am

    he's an emperor.. why would he marry except for heirs :(

    CGPT November 30, 2020 6:09 am

    LOL, what do you think were the 3 wives for?

    Ryu November 30, 2020 6:21 am
    LOL, what do you think were the 3 wives for? CGPT

    I thought he married them to shut the elders up from the different factions in his empire....you know, kinda like checkmate, they can't rebel anymore (if they plan to) cause now a noble from their family is family with the emperor now.

    Ryu November 30, 2020 6:24 am
    he's an emperor.. why would he marry except for heirs :( bumblebee

    sometimes they marry for political power or support for stability, since if the concubine's family is powerful, marriage would definitely bind those 2 powerful houses together... not just for producing heirs.

    CGPT November 30, 2020 6:27 am
    I thought he married them to shut the elders up from the different factions in his empire....you know, kinda like checkmate, they can't rebel anymore (if they plan to) cause now a noble from their family is fam... Ryu

    and what do you think is the role of a woman in a marriage? Give birth to an heir, right? If he doesn't sleep with them, what use do they have in the end. Also, he is technically their husband so that is his duty to them.

    Ryu November 30, 2020 7:11 am
    and what do you think is the role of a woman in a marriage? Give birth to an heir, right? If he doesn't sleep with them, what use do they have in the end. Also, he is technically their husband so that is his du... CGPT

    this isn't real life, this is a feminist fantasy webtoon last time I check. That's why I had hoped the emperor would do something different.

    And I didn't take the emperor to act so realistic because as I've said.... this is a feminist webtoon, not real life. So I don't really get why you're riding on a high horse trying to sound so condescending on what real life medieval misogynistic acts are.

    CGPT November 30, 2020 7:30 am

    What does it being a feminist webtoon have to do with historically accuracy? In fact, Such details even add more to the plight of women back then and give more essence to how they overcame it. The way you're speaking is like saying that Pol should be the only woman that has a story to tell here and that other women are irrelevant and should not be given their due as wives.
    That ain't feminist at all mah dude. Cut the crap with your fantasy imagination of smooth sailing romance and an upright emperor who only has a heart for one woman. It's laid down that he needs an heir, why are you bitching at him when he is doing his duty to his wives and for the kingdom.

    Ryu November 30, 2020 8:20 am
    What does it being a feminist webtoon have to do with historically accuracy? In fact, Such details even add more to the plight of women back then and give more essence to how they overcame it. The way you're sp... CGPT

    bitching?

    First, you climb on a high horse sounding all condescending as if I'm an ignorant. And now, you personally attack me by labeling my opinion as 'BITCHING'?

    Wow. I hope you get your high from fighting online and trying to belittle other people. Have a good day because I will not engage in your horrible attitude.

    CGPT November 30, 2020 8:33 am
    bitching?First, you climb on a high horse sounding all condescending as if I'm an ignorant. And now, you personally attack me by labeling my opinion as 'BITCHING'?Wow. I hope you get your high from fighting onl... Ryu

    I was just trying to ask you what you think he should have done with his 3 wives. Play house, drink tea and dress up?
    I guess the webtoon is to be blamed for your fantasy-like expectations.

    zilpiy November 30, 2020 8:38 am

    i feel u on that LOL it kinda shocked me that it was confirmed that the emperor slept wit the concubines.. he just doesnt seem like the type... i know it sounds weird but idk i cant see him sleeping with anyone other than paulina..

    Ryu November 30, 2020 9:26 am
    i feel u on that LOL it kinda shocked me that it was confirmed that the emperor slept wit the concubines.. he just doesnt seem like the type... i know it sounds weird but idk i cant see him sleeping with anyone... zilpiy

    yeah I thought it was gonna be some cutesy stuff since the emperor was portrayed like a love struck puppy always admiring and sighing about Pol... then sht went medieval and I'm suddenly faced with a very different perspective.

    Well, I checked on some of the spoilers about the web novel and it sounds like the emperor was real trash at first... this webtoon though, portrayed him in a more forgiving light, so the recent events caught me off guard.

    well, anyway... just my feelings and opinion.

    P_P November 30, 2020 12:47 pm
    this isn't real life, this is a feminist fantasy webtoon last time I check. That's why I had hoped the emperor would do something different.And I didn't take the emperor to act so realistic because as I've said... Ryu

    I usually don't comment, but this is too funny. Are you seriously being so demeaning and dismissive that you are arguing that any work which touches upon feminist ideas "isn't real life"? You do understand that humans use fictional creations to comment on and examine the human condition? Not every work serves to feed into what people want to hear. This "feminist webtoon" is not merely a piece written to bolster what feminists want to hear in order to keep them pacified and out of conversation. In order to be meaningful and make impactful statements about reality that others will reflect seriously upon, of course a work will present a realistic perspective.

    Also, it is self-serving to block an entire group into a single mindset. Being sexually exclusive to the one you have romantic feelings for is not an ultimate feminist belief, not the central point. Feminism is not about the physical act of sex: it is about having equal rights, power and agency. You are literally dismissing the deeper issues and arguments this work poses because of your own extremely limited perspectives.

    Ryu November 30, 2020 12:58 pm
    I usually don't comment, but this is too funny. Are you seriously being so demeaning and dismissive that you are arguing that any work which touches upon feminist ideas "isn't real life"? You do understand that... P_P

    So it's too funny for you that you didn't even understand the context of what I was saying and just trying to nitpick on how you can insert your own agenda?

    Excuse me but who told you to put words in my mouth by boxing feminism as a fantasy for monogamy and what other crap you spouted to make it seem like it came from my mouth?

    No one was talking about feminism and sex or none od your agenda?


    I stated that I wished the Emperor did something else other than conform to society's demands of him to politically marry, because if you've been paying attention, this webtoon started off as a story about breaking norms as a woman in a time where misogyny was rampant. The emperor had a hand in helping Pol reach her potential because (I believe) that he believes in her capabilities.


    Coming from that perspective, I was expecting the emperor to break norms too as much as Pol had succeeded in doing so. And by breaking norms, I meant for the emperor to actually marry Pol by biding his time to strengthen his power and in the pinacle of his success, pursue Pol and marry her. -Not this conformity to society because he wants to be a fair king.


    So please, stop making stories out of thin air. Coming here acting like you're all cool with your "thought provoking" definition of feminism and reading too much into a simple idea. Get over yourself.

    P_P November 30, 2020 1:23 pm
    So it's too funny for you that you didn't even understand the context of what I was saying and just trying to nitpick on how you can insert your own agenda?Excuse me but who told you to put words in my mouth by... Ryu

    Oh good, you responded. Based on how you handled other individuals responses to your comments, I assumed you would block me out as well because it is easier to shoot down the argument you started than engage with others' opinions. Which would, you know, force you to analyze your own argument and reflect upon your perspectives, maybe seeing the holes and reevaluating your beliefs.

    Unfortunately, your tone and final rude response reveals that your words come from your own unwillingness to respect others and consider their opinions as valid. Why do you feel the need to put me down in order to validate yourself?

    If you felt that another had truly misunderstood you, it would be better to approach them with patience and respect: let them know that you feel they have misunderstood you and explain why you feel that way.

    Also, you words are RIGHT HERE. It's pretty obvious that, yes, "feminism as a fantasy for monogamy" is EXACTLY what you said. Upon your own reflection, that may not be what you truly believe or meant, but that is what you said. You're just pissed off because you were so wrapped up in presenting a response to a comment that you did not like that you came off like an asshole as you did not take the time to fully consider your words, how to express your perspective, and how they would be interpreted. You're mad at yourself, I just pointed it out.

    Ryu November 30, 2020 1:39 pm
    Oh good, you responded. Based on how you handled other individuals responses to your comments, I assumed you would block me out as well because it is easier to shoot down the argument you started than engage wi... P_P

    Yes you do love to assume a lot of things and put words into my mouth. Who blocked who? You like making up assumptions and passing them as truth.

    I'm not your mother or any other rude assumptionist here, so I don't need to baby someone who is disrespectful. And if you can't take that fact, then get out of this thread and find a better thread where you spread your agenda.

    Your attempt at reverse psychology proves the fact that you assume things and pass it off as facts.

    I cannot stress this words enough but I'll repeat it for you.

    Get over yourself.

    P_P November 30, 2020 2:26 pm
    Yes you do love to assume a lot of things and put words into my mouth. Who blocked who? You like making up assumptions and passing them as truth.I'm not your mother or any other rude assumptionist here, so I do... Ryu

    You do know that telling someone who was engaging in your conversation to "get over themselves" any time they say something you do not like does not put you in the right? Your basically stating that anyone who does not share or support what you say is too wrapped up in themselves to try to understand your perspective. Which is actually what hiding behind that statement says about you.

    Also, I am not asking you to baby someone who is disrespectful to you. But that is not your situation: you feel that anything someone says that you do not like, or those who point out that you said something that was taken by others the wrong way, is disrespecting you.

    Then, you accuse me of making up assumptions while stressing several times about "facts". Those who argue facts are those who put up shields to stop conversations, because facts carry the weight of an idea of truth. You argue against my "assumptions" while utilize a language powered by "fact" that you feel leaves no room for doubt. By doing so, you hope to create a situation where I was in the wrong by posing fiction while you have disarmed me with truth.

    I can take anything you throw at me you nasty little shit. Your "fact" rhetoric included.

    What you want is for me to leave quietly and give you and this thread the illusion that your point is the correct one. People are not that stupid and they can see through you and your goals.

    Okay, I'll leave the thread and stop following it. It's a waste of time to have a conversation with one who only hears their own voice.

    Ryu November 30, 2020 2:40 pm
    You do know that telling someone who was engaging in your conversation to "get over themselves" any time they say something you do not like does not put you in the right? Your basically stating that anyone who ... P_P

    I told you to get over yourself because obviously you open your statement with a "cool" persona by saying "oh I don't usually reply but this is funny haha lemme tell you how unbothered I am by writing a long ass paragraph detailing what feminism is and how you're definitely wrong if you call me out when I'm acting so cool and unbothered.... By the way, you're also angry at yourself if you deny my words because I'm just cool and eloquent describing things in long way so I sound eloquent and unbothered"


    That's what you sound like. And I told you to get over yourself because you're out here replying in a roundabout way, looking like a fool.

    And obviously no one agrees with your weird haughty statements here because no one else is chiming in on your agenda. Also, the like to dislike ratio on my thread means a lot of people have the same sentiment.

    Get over yourself fool.

    Acting all high and mighty here and you lose your marbles and call me a little shit because I'm not falling for your "I'm so unbothered haha lemme educate you" agenda.... Eww.

    Fool.