Still being traumatised doesn't give the right to hurt other people. It's no excuse.
It helps us to understand the character better but past never should be the justification.
With this logic half of criminals, abusers, rapists ou tbete faced some terrible circumstances in the past... Does it make their actions any better? Does it help their victim to feel less pain? No
I'm glad you said that
I sure they are not excusing or justifing anything.
Seungho did what he did BECAUSE of his bad past, because he was traumatised, BECAUSE he was hurt himself etc.
We forget about the victim in all of that.
I've read the post that Yoon shouldn't face any punishment because his past was punishment enough. It's rather deceitful way of thinking.
are you perhaps blind? am i justifying anything? seungho can rot in the pits of hell for all i care, but if you have any brain capacity you should take on board that people are the way they are for reasons - and that isn't a justification, just straight facts. as much as nakyum is a victim of seungho's horrible ways, seungho is a victim of his father and his brother, who did horrible things to him as well. again, my dear friend, not justification, just the way life works. if I was to justify seungho, i would say that he cannot be judged and everything he did is okay, which, if you would ever so kindly use your eyes, I did not.
ah, your name makes sense to me now. 'bliss'. taking bliss in not using any thinking power to just come up with whatever the fuck you want. read it again, the word 'because' isn't even in my comment. nor, is any form of justification. perhaps take some 'bliss' in understanding that nothing seungho does or says is reasonable. he is a terrible man. or maybe even take some 'bliss' in learning basic thinking mechanics.
No one suggested or implied you defend him because he is sexy.
But you kinda try to take responsibility off his shoulder and blame his wrongdoings on his past. The past made him the man he is now but his decisions are no one elses's but his own and he is fully responsible for his mistakes.
It's like as if in the court someone was being sentenced and suddenly someone screamed: your honour he did wrong BUT " u KEEP forgetting that this man is totally emotionally traumarised, which is why he resorted to the habits he has now..."
Because what's the point of this post if not the attempt to explain and at least share the blame between Seungho and these who wronged him?
You literally say "you guys keep forgetting" once again what's the point of this post?
People are angry because Seungho wronged NK and your reply is that people forget that Seungho was also wronged.
And I didn't personally attack you but I see the level of this conversion.
And my name is Biss so I recommend the appointment at ophthalmologist too.
Like literally you could have just said that I misunderstood your post and you didn't try to justify his actions and it wasn't reaction to people being (rightfully) angry at Seungho's wrongdoings (as I thought, the" you guys forget" part mistaken me) but it was addressed to people who are shocked and disappointed that he didn't change so quickly because we have to understand that Seungho is traumatised and half mad man.
There is really no need to offend someone because their misinterpreted your intentions.
All in I'm sorry I misinterpreted and misunderstood the purpose of your post if it was indeed different than what I've assumed.
what in this god forsaken world? are you perhaps short of a marble? for the 5th time, in no way shape or form is there any intent to justify. share the blame? the blame is no one but his own, he is a man who can think and live for himself. I do believe you aren't listening to what I am saying at all, SEUNGHO. BAD. MAN. SEUNGHO. RESPONSIBLE. FOR. ALL. ACTIONS. SEUNGHO. INDEPENDENT. shall I dumb it down a bit more for you? SEUNGHO, NO NO MAN. my dear, i hate to break it to you, but i commented what I did in response to some comments wondering why seungho is so corrupted, like they haven't read the story at all. in baby speak for you: REMINDER. abusers are formerly abused, and it is no excuse for anything. in baby speak: BAD PEOPLE = BAD PEOPLE. thrice, you cannot yell in court, you will face repercussions. adieu, I will not speak to you again.
assumptions are all but your own and do not speak on behalf of anyone. I have told you my intent, and you have patronised it as if your assumption is scripture. do not comment under any of my posts you may see again, as you assumptions are nothing but pompous belittling. adieu.
You are really absolutely rude and disrespectful. I even apologized that I might be wrong but we are in yaoi section where justification of semes' wrongdoings is everyday occurances.
Still you've never answered what was the point of the post beside vague that some people don't read/understand the story.
Goodbye
Oh and after you edited your post your answers to my post and others' replies dissapered so I didn't see ANY of your responses when I was writing that post. After I wrote it they appeared again.
"what I did in response to some comments wondering why seungho is so corrupted, like they haven't read the story at all."
And how we were supposed to magically knew that lol? Because majority of the comments were just angry about Seungho's doings.
Ok as I said waste of time.
I recommend being more cultural and nice in the future even if someone was mistaken there is no place to react like you did.
i think u guys KEEP forgetting that seungho is totally emotionally traumarised, which is why he resorted to the habits he has now. he's only JUST come to terms with the fact that nakyum makes him feel at peace, but he HASN'T come to terms with the fact that he LOVES him. seungho is emotionally traumarised and vulnerable, so his acts of bizzare behaviour come from him trying to deny it.
he isn't the way he is without reason.
edit: if you think this comment is me justify the beluga whale waste of a man seungho, I refer you to a optometrist, as you need some glasses. im saying, SEUNGHO WAS ABUSED BY HIS FATHER FOR SEVERAL YEARS AS A CHILD therefore he shut himself away and became exactly like his father. i did not say SEUNGHO IS ALLOWED TO DO ALL THESE HORRIBLE THINGS BC HE IS SEXY.