Same. Irl, when your partner says "STOP," you should stop
yes and yaoi in general romanticizes like the pressure tops give and sometimes force bottoms into situations they dont want. it annoys me so much when after they are still lovey dovey even though the top mightve just forced themself on u.
for real. There's nothing sexy about being forced to do those things. Sometimes the bottom even looks like they're in actual pain, but the top keeps on going and somehow that's supposed to be hot
PREACH IT
idk how bottoms in yaoi are ok with their partners doing this shit,, like sure it might be kinda "cute" on paper but like when u think about it.. it feels rlly creepy and kinda rapey idk maybe its just me