Omg yes! I glad someone said something! I was like wtf? When I saw the blood lol.
Thank you very much I didn't know this before
Yes, thank you. It is as you say- a good pred, a good arrousal make it flexible and it doesn't bleed. No arrousal- no flexibility- it is torn and bleeds. And it is painful.
Did i just learn something from a comment under a smut manhwa? Yes I did.
And an extra thank you for "if he ain't gonna do the foreplay propperly, he ain't worth your time"
Thank you for taking the time to write all this out! I wanted to say all of this but I didn't have the patience. You said everything perfectly! This myth needs to stop. I have adult friends who still believed this as well and it illustrates why there desperately needs to be some form of sex education being taught.
This right here. Its sad that a lot of people dont know this. This is something that should be taught more in sex education.
Lube is Love
omg thanks for the information, i really didn't knew this!
So your telling me I’ve gone through my entire life thinking that whenever it’s your first time your suppose to bleed I- tysm
Refer to this video for more info about the hymen. The obgyn starts talking about the hymen around 2:22 but the entire video isn’t about the hymen.
This information is better
But people should also know that it isn't deadly or super bad to bleed during your first time!!!! It all depens on you and your partner, so don't get scared if you do bleed(づ￣ ³￣)づ
Neon, that’s not entirely true. Some women have blood due to their hymen breaking and others don’t. It’s completely normal to not have blood and to have it.
PSA!!! YOU SHOULD NOT BLEED DURING YOUR FIRST TIME!!
I’m surprised I didn’t see anyone talking about it in the comments but if you’re bleeding during your first time that means you aren’t prepped enough. The stretching may feel uncomfortable but you shouldn’t be bleeding. Oral sex, fingering, and lube are your best friend, people always leave out lube but not being able to get wet enough doesn’t always mean that your not aroused it’s just sometimes your body can’t produce enough lubricant. I know this story is fiction but I know a lot of you are young and actually think that bleeding your first time indicates you’re a virgin but if your partner isn’t taking the time to prep you than they ain’t worth shit. This “bleeding during your first time” or “popping the cherry” or “breaking the hymen” actually comes from a super old misogynistic myth that originated because men back in the day never prepared their virgin female partner so they bleed. Your hymen isn’t a seal that you “pop open” for access, it’s actually a muscle inside your vagina that was used by your body when you were a baby to keep bacteria out of your vagina but now it serves no purpose. So reminder, YOU SHOULD NOT BE BLEEDING IF IT’S YOUR FIRST TIME and that lube is your best friend. If you guys have any other questions, I’ll be here to help debunk misinformation :)