okay so i see a lot of people debating on this and I wanted to add my hot take
from what i’ve seen chowon suffers from a mental illness (i am not sure which one). we can see this from his behavior to the fact that he takes meds for it. i don’t think i’m wrong to assume that this messes with his behavior and mental state.
shall we also consider that chowon’s relationships have all been unrequited meaning that nobody really has shown him love and mostly everyone in his life just sees him as a pretty omega. this gives reasoning as to why chowon acts the way he does. if the first person who has made you believe you are loved suddenly says they don’t love you, it’s gonna hurt especially in chowons case.
does it excuse his behavior? not at all. does he have room to grow as a character? YES
chowon can still grow and seek help. if kyungsoo chooses to still be with him then that’s okay but first chowon needs to grow from all his internal conflicts.
okay so i see a lot of people debating on this and I wanted to add my hot take
from what i’ve seen chowon suffers from a mental illness (i am not sure which one). we can see this from his behavior to the fact that he takes meds for it. i don’t think i’m wrong to assume that this messes with his behavior and mental state.
shall we also consider that chowon’s relationships have all been unrequited meaning that nobody really has shown him love and mostly everyone in his life just sees him as a pretty omega. this gives reasoning as to why chowon acts the way he does. if the first person who has made you believe you are loved suddenly says they don’t love you, it’s gonna hurt especially in chowons case.
does it excuse his behavior? not at all. does he have room to grow as a character? YES
chowon can still grow and seek help. if kyungsoo chooses to still be with him then that’s okay but first chowon needs to grow from all his internal conflicts.