Is it though?

DaddySatan November 24, 2020 6:26 pm

Y'all I don't think people realize this relationship isn't necessarily toxic. Part of the appeal of Sulwha asking these considered 'annoying' questions is to help the reader understand the past of what their faults in the past relationship between jaehee and Huilin. Also, the author wants Sulwha to make Huilin feel hopeless in their BDSM play sessions with the safe word being "huilin" for the fact that it's to add a layer of dominance vs submissiveness. Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't understand how Sulwha and Jaehee's relationship is actually toxic, yes there are issues, but that doesn't mean the pairing is bad. We'll see in the incoming chapters to see how the author plays out the pairing.

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    Dipulogan November 24, 2020 10:06 pm

    If it werent for sulhwa jaehee would be having sex with every random female on this manga like in part 1.sulhwa loves jaehee for real. She became like this tp control jaehee urges.
    Jaehee cheated on sulhwaa during chapter 24,when she got drunk and called huilin.

    Keith November 24, 2020 11:49 pm
    If it werent for sulhwa jaehee would be having sex with every random female on this manga like in part 1.sulhwa loves jaehee for real. She became like this tp control jaehee urges.Jaehee cheated on sulhwaa dur... Dipulogan

    I agree...

    Azula November 25, 2020 6:26 pm

    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her

    Dipulogan November 27, 2020 10:21 am
    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her Azula

    Huh.. She raped her.. When?
    Didnt they agree to have that relationship? Didnt jaehee betrayed her trust, even she knew how much sulhwa liked her.Since season 1,jaehee has been horny to sulhwa. Sulhwa on the other hand just wanted her unnie to like her. And what did she got in return. Betrayal, treated like an idiot.

    Dipulogan November 27, 2020 10:25 am
    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her Azula

    Imagine ur lover fucking someone else behind your back.And u caring for her. One find out your gf sleeping with someone else. What would u do?
    Options:
    1) cry and apologize
    2)You will leave her by saying, "i thought u loved me. Ok its my fault i guess. But im happy that found someone.
    3)_____ fill in the blanks

    Dipulogan November 27, 2020 10:27 am
    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her Azula

    And thats not all. Jaehee cheated because she couldnt control herself. So anyone is fine.. Really as long they make her cum.

    Think on the perspective of sulhwa.

    DaddySatan November 29, 2020 7:19 pm
    If it werent for sulhwa jaehee would be having sex with every random female on this manga like in part 1.sulhwa loves jaehee for real. She became like this tp control jaehee urges.Jaehee cheated on sulhwaa dur... Dipulogan

    Yes there are issues they need to work out. I think a huge factor that drives jaehee to cheat is essentially the past that she and sulhwa share. Jaehee was in an emotionally abusive relationship with her mother especially, with her mom purposely playing favorites to Sulhwa and treating Sulhwa so much better. A part of Jaehee wants to be with Sulwha, but ironically enough, another part of her wants her to go through the same pain she felt through when she was pretty much betrayed by her own mother. But that complex relationship is what is able to help the author create a series rather than a few chapters. And when Jaehee realized how much damage she did to Sulhwa during the rape scene (honestly, and I may get a lot of hate for this, but I feel like that scene was created more to add drama to the series. I don't think Sulhwa would of actually raped Jaehee given how the author originally created Sulhwa's personality) she kind of realized that causing Sulwha this much emotional damage isn't necessarily what she wants anymore. They're still trying to work through there issues and understand the relationship better, which is why I don't think the relationship is toxic, for the fact that they're trying, at least so far in the series.

    Mira_unnie December 5, 2020 2:34 am
    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her Azula

    Same

    Dipulogan December 5, 2020 12:40 pm
    Yes there are issues they need to work out. I think a huge factor that drives jaehee to cheat is essentially the past that she and sulhwa share. Jaehee was in an emotionally abusive relationship with her mother... DaddySatan

    What did u expect? Sulhwa was normal girl doing normal things. Wanted her oneesan to accept her.go on dates etc.Her personality flipped.have u never seen calm and easy going people getting sudden burst of rage.

    Dipulogan December 5, 2020 12:43 pm
    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her Azula

    Jaehee had it coming tho. Im on sulhwa side here. May be she went to extreme but i can fully understand why she did that.

    May be one day u will understamd, when ur wife sleeps with someone else.

    Dipulogan December 5, 2020 12:44 pm
    Sulhwa raped her that the big issue for me and why I don’t stand her Azula

    And jaehee will do it again... U will see.but this time, sulwa will just leave without saying anything. And dissapear from her life forever

    UGH December 6, 2020 3:44 am
    Jaehee had it coming tho. Im on sulhwa side here. May be she went to extreme but i can fully understand why she did that.May be one day u will understamd, when ur wife sleeps with someone else. Dipulogan

    Are you saying raping someone is okay just because they had sex with someone else even though they weren't even in a relationship? If you actually think that she deserved to be raped then I'm pretty sure you're insane

    Dipulogan December 6, 2020 8:25 am
    Are you saying raping someone is okay just because they had sex with someone else even though they weren't even in a relationship? If you actually think that she deserved to be raped then I'm pretty sure you're... UGH

    They were in a relationship. Sulhwa confessed said, "she always loved her. And if she didnt mind she would be her partner.So she doesnt need to have sex with other peoplr or associate with person like huilin, just to satisfy her desire. She woupd fulfill her lust".

    and jaehee accepted. After that they had sex like 1000 times.If u think they weren't in a relationship, u r the one who is ignorant.
    She made sulhwa a monster. Her innocence is gone because of her.If u think sulhwa would just stand there doing nothing, u r the one who doesnt understand anything about sulhwa.

    Dipulogan December 6, 2020 8:28 am
    Are you saying raping someone is okay just because they had sex with someone else even though they weren't even in a relationship? If you actually think that she deserved to be raped then I'm pretty sure you're... UGH

    Raping someone is wrong. No doubt about that. But u need to understand the ground they stand.U need to wear the shoes and look through her eyes. Feel the pain,anxiety of sulhwa to understand her the actions thats she took.Lust overtook her and the rage and disgust that she felt when she saw jaehee with huilin and even refusing to answer when she asked, where she was.

    Dipulogan December 6, 2020 8:33 am
    Are you saying raping someone is okay just because they had sex with someone else even though they weren't even in a relationship? If you actually think that she deserved to be raped then I'm pretty sure you're... UGH

    Dont think whats wrong and whats right. Dont see the manga through the eyes of social norms.Think why it happened.was it unavoidable. This isnt the first time sulhwa was disgusted.jealousy, anger, anxiety, lust overtook her.so i said, she had it coming.

    Jaehee knew full well how badly sulhwa wants her.but still decided to cheat on her. She left her when sulhwa was a kid. Never contacted her for 15 years. U think nothkng will happen. Sulhwa is not some average girl

    Dipulogan December 6, 2020 8:36 am
    Are you saying raping someone is okay just because they had sex with someone else even though they weren't even in a relationship? If you actually think that she deserved to be raped then I'm pretty sure you're... UGH

    Wait r u 15 year old?

    UGH December 6, 2020 2:53 pm

    I'm not saying that Sulhwa didn't deserve to be angry. She definitely had the right to be upset. It's the fact that she rapes Jaehee that ultimately makes me lose all my sympathy for her. I don't care about her reasons, she shouldn't have raped her. Even if she did cheat (which she didn't because ch 24 pg 18 confirms they weren't in a committed relationship and that they were just fuck buddies), it doesn't mean Sulhwa has the right to do what she did.

    Dipulogan December 7, 2020 2:07 am
    I'm not saying that Sulhwa didn't deserve to be angry. She definitely had the right to be upset. It's the fact that she rapes Jaehee that ultimately makes me lose all my sympathy for her. I don't care about her... UGH

    That chapter 24 confirms nothing.
    Sulhwa repeatedly said that she likes her to jaehee.she said that she loved her since last 15 years and that she was upset when she lefr her.and thats the only reason she agreed to have sex with jaehee in the first place.may be jaehee should have refused to have sez with her if she didnt feel the same way about sulhwa. Sulhwa is not some cheap slut.people have feeljngs.


    But when jaehee had sex huilin she broke hwr heart and trampled all over her feelings.her confession meant nothing to her.This is her little sister we r talking about who never dated anyone and never fell in love except jaehee.And if u don't acknowledge that, i also dont acknowledge that sulhwa raped her.she just had little bit rough sex.

    Dipulogan December 7, 2020 2:15 am
    I'm not saying that Sulhwa didn't deserve to be angry. She definitely had the right to be upset. It's the fact that she rapes Jaehee that ultimately makes me lose all my sympathy for her. I don't care about her... UGH

    "Its not like i can accuse you cheating.its not like we are in a committed relationship "

    " I like you unnie "

    They were in a relationship.she proposed to her multiple times. Jaehee was the one who never gave answer to her. So just said yes to the sex part.Remember that. She was committed to jaehee. She took her relationship seriously. For jaehee it was just another fuck buddy. It was her problem, not sulhwa.

    Dipulogan December 7, 2020 2:18 am
    I'm not saying that Sulhwa didn't deserve to be angry. She definitely had the right to be upset. It's the fact that she rapes Jaehee that ultimately makes me lose all my sympathy for her. I don't care about her... UGH

    You can ask anyone in this group whether jaehee cheated on sulhwa or not. They will tell you the same thing as I.