Chowon get better

Jolynesluvr November 23, 2020 11:26 am

Chowon doesn’t need Kyungsoo to help him, he needs a professional therapist so he can be guided with his mental illness. He needs to focus on himself until he’s stable and only til then can he find happiness. Whoever said Dojun is to blame does not understand people that’re mentally disturbed. Chowon is also not to blame, his mind is unwell like dude’s literally seeing people.

Responses
    Miko.Hoshi November 23, 2020 11:30 am

    the therapist can't do anything for him except giving him medicament ...Chowon needs the love of people he needs to be loved so he won't be alone and possessive he needs to understand the meaning of love

    Clara96 November 23, 2020 11:33 am

    I totally agree
    But during therapy especially mental health therapy
    One needs support , chowon needs to know that there are ppl caring for him , supporting him , or he won’t even try to get better
    Emotional support are the best for ppl like chowon but I don’t want him to be dependent on kyungsoo I just want him to feel wanted and feel that he isnot alone

    Jolynesluvr November 23, 2020 11:38 am
    I totally agree But during therapy especially mental health therapy One needs support , chowon needs to know that there are ppl caring for him , supporting him , or he won’t even try to get better Emotional s... Clara96

    Yeah that’s what I mean! he doesn’t need someone that he’s super dependent on I feel like that’s just counterproductive and redirects his obsession on someone else.

    Jolynesluvr November 23, 2020 11:41 am
    the therapist can't do anything for him except giving him medicament ...Chowon needs the love of people he needs to be loved so he won't be alone and possessive he needs to understand the meaning of love Miko.Hoshi

    Yeah that’s why I said therapist can only guide him, too bad sk therapist tends to belittle people’s feelings so that’s probably why therapy has been counterproductive. I should’ve reworded by saying Chowon does need love from someone like Kyungsoo but he shouldn’t be dependent on him. He also needs to learn to love himself not only in a superficial way :)

    Miko.Hoshi November 23, 2020 12:08 pm
    Yeah that’s why I said therapist can only guide him, too bad sk therapist tends to belittle people’s feelings so that’s probably why therapy has been counterproductive. I should’ve reworded by saying Ch... Jolynesluvr

    yeah that's it.
    we wish for him to be happy now, he suffered enough