i'm sorry i just can't bring myself to like sitong, he's way too cold with his friends. i ...

i’m kinda conflicted on him, but honestly he’s refreshing rather than the extreme blushing weak main characters. igs i like him more for that, but as a friend yea he’s cold. i don’t think he’d say it with someone who could get hurt though? the people who like talk to him aren’t really like that dunno

I don't think he's that cold, and there are more harsher and colder characters who have many fans in other manga, so sitong is normal, he's even the adorable type

hmm maybe it depends. For me i want him as a friend because i'm the type of person who likes to annoy and be playful with people like sitong (cold on the outside but soft inside) . they are actually fun to be with. I have lots of friends who is like him and i'm having lots of fun annoying them everyday.
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Exactly he has flaws like any other person. He actually can be quite caring. Dunno about you but I think action speaks louder than words.

sorry that you got so many downvotes, i totally agree. its a bit annoying tbh that he is so cold and doesn't seem to ever want to be friendly or progress any kind of relationship. he has become a very static character that im not really interested in?

I disagree, although he may seem cold I think he definitely cares for his friends and messes around with them, o mean they all get along otherwise the wouldn’t hang out. I don’t think he’s said anything mean to them either, maybe he’s said some blunt things to li Zichen but I feel like that was when he was hiding from him more and he’s become more caring now. Just bc he’s not as outgoing doesn’t mean he’s cold to them. And if you couldn’t accept that as a friend, then I’m sure someone like that doesn’t need you either.

Exactly, i love the fact that hes not just some weak ass uke compared to all the other ones ive read and just give in like real fast and its fun to see all this and sitong attitude and knowing very well that he cares a lot

It's called slowburn. You'll see the progress eventually. This is not YAOI. They don't need to be couple once one of them confessed lmao. If you want some fast progress, drop this.
If there's a dislike button on replies, you would probably have a lot of dislikes as well ¯_(ツ)_/¯

uhh ok lmao what the fuck has you so pressed? im just expressing my opinion. and nowhere did i mention the progress of the plot, we are discussing the character. im talking about how sitong isn't a proactive person, which i dont particularly like.

Wel I don't your opinion is needed here. If his character is not your preference, better drop this because he's not going to change just because of you.

i dont need your permission to say what i want. please leave me alone now

for sure i agree that he's better than the blush 24/24 type and i understand that his cold character is somewhat a facade and he trully cares about his friends but even so the answers he gives, even if it's not what he really think, still they could hurt the other party. haha maybe i'm just very sensitive.

i don't know, i just think that for me and for my expectation as a friend i don't think i would get along with him. i think that in a relationship (friendship or others) each of the person has to give and take in equal parts. it also means that it doesn't have to be always the same persone to take the first step. now, i haven't finished reading it yet but what i saw is that every time someone asks sitong something, his immediate answer is "no".

the fact that there are more downvotes that upvotes means that i have a somewhat unpopular opinion, that's good though

i haven't finished it yet but as he is now yes, he isn't very active. for sure with the story progressing, his character will develop too but yes in short i totally agree.