I'm seeing people comment on how Jun is overworked and I agree to that wholeheartedly. You...

Mangalover November 22, 2020 5:16 am

I'm seeing people comment on how Jun is overworked and I agree to that wholeheartedly. You have to remember Yul is Jihwan's nephew yet Jun is the one taking more care of him to the point he doesn't get time for himself. Ik jihwan has taken the money maker role but what about Jun's future? From last few chap we are seeing Jun getting more burdened with Yul and other chores with just a little help from jihwan. And on top of that his father shamelessly puts more burden on him. I hope Jun doesn't explode. I really love Jun and Yul relation but it hurts my heart to see Jun being the burdened one with no/little help from others.

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    Aisha November 22, 2020 4:55 am

    That's true, but don't blame Jihwan too much. It's the role that theydecided. Beside if there was no Yul anymore, do you think his father would not strongly recommend him to live with them to take care of sibbilings??

    Mangalover November 22, 2020 5:06 am
    That's true, but don't blame Jihwan too much. It's the role that theydecided. Beside if there was no Yul anymore, do you think his father would not strongly recommend him to live with them to take care of sibbi... Aisha

    I don't think that's the case. Jun left the home becoz he was burdened with twins and he didn't have time for his ownself. We see him leave his house and stay at dorms and he tried to reduce his contact with his own family too. And his father knows that too (he admitted that in earlier chap that he knew Jun was burdened with twins responsibility and feels guilty about it) yet his father again shamelessly ask him(Actually I think he didn't even asked him, he just straight up told him that he is going somewhere and Jun has to take responsibility again) I understand Jihwan's responsibility and Ik he is trying his best to help Jun( like he came up with day care option) that's why I said little help from Jihwan yet I feel like Jun is being stretched way too much

    Aisha November 22, 2020 5:11 am

    Yes. Unfortunatly yes.

    yuukisakura November 22, 2020 5:22 am

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    my heart cry for jun..seriously..cz he's the type that held in his pain and hurts..then explode when he reaches the limit..and now..i can't help thinking..after the trauma with step-mom..he held his feelings even more

    Mangalover November 22, 2020 5:29 am
    ╥﹏╥my heart cry for jun..seriously..cz he's the type that held in his pain and hurts..then explode when he reaches the limit..and now..i can't help thinking..after the trauma with step-mom..he held his fe... yuukisakura

    Yes that's what I'm scared of. I hope he opens up about this issue with Jihwan and draws a strict line with his father too.

    Groxy787 November 22, 2020 9:00 am

    Jun legit doesn’t have a full time job rn, which is why he’s taking on more of the home duties. Jihwan has told Jun to not work as much, but Jun has chosen not to, he also made the choice to help take care of Yul. Even if Yul is Hiwan’s nephew, that doesn’t automatically mean he should take responsibility of Yul, that 100% should be the parents.

    Similarly, Jun’s father acknowledged he fucked up asking Jun to watch the kids, and asking him now was not a forced situation. He had an emergency and asked his son if he could help, and Jun, who is in a very different place he was 4 odd years ago, agreed, and the dad made it easy on him.

    Jun is working like a stay at home parent, which is a full time job in itself, but it’s in no way being placed on him with him having no say in the decision. And a big example of this is that Jihwan did not accuse Jun of leaving him with the responsibility of watching Yul while he was gone, because he knew that he has the same responsibility as Jun and if Jun needed to leave he was going to do his part as is expected of him and not make Jun feel like he needed to take care of him or Yul.

    Mangalover November 22, 2020 2:48 pm
    Jun legit doesn’t have a full time job rn, which is why he’s taking on more of the home duties. Jihwan has told Jun to not work as much, but Jun has chosen not to, he also made the choice to help take care ... Groxy787

    I'm not blaming Jihwan bcoz ik he is trying his best but the whole situation is more burdened for Jun. He even took night shift wfh type job bcoz he did not want Yul to go to daycare. All I'm saying is he need to open up about this issue with Jihwan before he explodes.

    Groxy787 November 22, 2020 5:04 pm
    I'm not blaming Jihwan bcoz ik he is trying his best but the whole situation is more burdened for Jun. He even took night shift wfh type job bcoz he did not want Yul to go to daycare. All I'm saying is he need ... Mangalover

    Are you taking about the contracted job? He didn’t take that because of Yul. I also don’t think he’s about to explode. His current conversation with Jihwan about how he wasn’t paying close attention to the situation between Yul/Jun showed no signs that Jun is stressed about the situation.

    Mangalover November 23, 2020 2:14 pm
    Are you taking about the contracted job? He didn’t take that because of Yul. I also don’t think he’s about to explode. His current conversation with Jihwan about how he wasn’t paying close attention to ... Groxy787

    Tbh I don't exactly remember their conversation about Jun's job but I remember him saying he did not want Yul to go to daycare and would take care of him and even Jihwan told him that it would be too much for him. That's why I said he is taking too much and he might explode.
    In his father case, someone above commented that his father was just asking for a favour but if I remember correctly his father didn't asked him. He straight up told him to look out for twins and his house( which tbh is not much of a big issue but what's bothering me here is his father just straight up ordering him)
    I don't think he is stressed about one particular issue. Its more like small issues piling up (ex. His father, Yul's responsibility, his own career, household task that neighbor) and he is handling all of this on his own. That's why I said he need to have talk about this with Jihwan before he explodes

    yuukisakura November 23, 2020 5:00 pm
    Tbh I don't exactly remember their conversation about Jun's job but I remember him saying he did not want Yul to go to daycare and would take care of him and even Jihwan told him that it would be too much for h... Mangalover

    omg!yes..this is what i meant too..im saying like..bcuz of him letting out his feeling bfore..he got that prob with the step mom..so now..he have prob or trauma to share his feeling and concerns..he likes taking care of yul..but at times it does took a tool on him..but he doesnt wna admit it cz he is reminded of the time he complained bout taking care of the twins...well ,my opinion anyway..