How do you know if you're bi?

FluffyDeerLlama November 21, 2020 4:14 am

Like, I think I'm bi, but like, idk? I definitely lean towards males but if I have a strong enough relationship with a girl I feel like I could definitely be in a relationship with them. I feel more comfortable around females too, but maybe that's cuz I'm a girl too? I'm so confused pls help

Responses
    OyaOya November 21, 2020 4:20 am

    Well i guess i can say i feel u since...uk i only been seeing dudes but even back then i really had some thoughts of me being with a girl, and after i experienced it..i dated guys and girls but i try to keep it with guys out there since my family and stuff would never support me being with a girl
    But I still like both
    Tell me when u figure it out lol u may help me ; )

    Azollae November 21, 2020 4:27 am

    hello! i’ve had the same question as you a while back. I know that I myself am definitely straight but after some things, I ended up going out with a girl. I still identify myself as straight though since I don’t feel any attraction to other girls except for that particular person. If you’re comfortable with going out with both guys and girls in general, then in my view, you're bi. If not, then I think you’re straight or have another sexuality. your SOGIE depends on you too so categorizing yourself as bi or not can be pretty subjective when asking a lot of different people. don’t stress yourself out too much and gradually learn more about yourself. best of luck! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

    Alexx_138 November 21, 2020 4:46 am

    I think the best way to verify it is by giving a try. But have u ever felt sexually attracted by a woman? Or is it like, u really like her and just that?

    FluffyDeerLlama November 21, 2020 3:44 pm
    I think the best way to verify it is by giving a try. But have u ever felt sexually attracted by a woman? Or is it like, u really like her and just that? Alexx_138

    I've never been sexually attracted to a woman, but I feel like I could if I knew them well enough.

    Lexia_801 November 22, 2020 3:01 am
    I've never been sexually attracted to a woman, but I feel like I could if I knew them well enough. FluffyDeerLlama

    Well, I can't tell you "I declare u bisexual", but maybe by telling u why I consider myself bi u can see if u sympathize or not.
    At the beginning, my bisexuality was more like a way of keeping my mind open, I felt like I didn't want to be specific on the gender because I should feel attracted to the person in question, and found illogical to reject a girl just because she had no penis. One day I went to the pub with a friend and made out with a girl I met there, and I was like, "alright, everything confirmed".
    So currently for me it really doesn't matter the gender, I find both, let's say, types of body equally appealing, the only important thing is if I like the person or not.

    Srry if my grammar is bad, I’m not native (● ̄(エ) ̄●)