I still dont agree tbh. In Stockholm syndrome, you're conditioned to side with the abuser. You hear victims of abusers say that he promised he'd be better. And stufflike that. But what about yuri? What made him act like this? Maybe if he was just suspicious and not actually hostile to the point of harassing jiri then that's excusable. He's been in society for years. He's be to highschool aka the period where u form who u really are. He knows how society works. He's now in college, above the border of legal age. By now if he doesn't know how society works then maybe a clue about it. Then he knows harassing someone isn't good. He's venting on jiri. Taking out his anger on jiri. He was rude to BIL and his noona in that dinner. Did he even take time to know the BIL? Didn't he just jump to conclusions? Isn't this looking for a reason for his noona to break up with him? Because he's not even trying. He's blatantly showing his dislike in that dinner.
Let's say he was abused as a kid. Verbal or emotional. And his noona was the one there for her. Does that excuse him of being selfish that he just won't let his noona be happy with her husband. Shouldn't he be happy that someone who gave him light finally found someone that cna make her happy?
But he wanted to be the one that made her happy, not a random person she met on trip. I mean look at him and his family, the only one that seems okay is his noona but she’s probably messed up too. I mean would you be happy if your light got snatched away from you and shined brighter with another person while leaving you in darkness? I definitely know I wouldn’t.
I mean you have to understand yuri pain because everybody have a back story and a deeper truth than just liking his older sister in a romantic way