Idk if I saw it as he didn't give a shit. To me he seemed a little shook up, but was trying to compose himself in front of the man who just murdered him because its not like he could do anything about it then and that man could still be useful. We also don't really know what kind of relationship Rogi had with his parents. He obviously cherishes his daughter and would cut a bit h for her so maybe he just wasn't close with them.
Yeah I'm not even going to try to make an excuse for rape that was fucked up. When I first read that other manga I really didn't like Rogi but now I am more sympathetic towards him. Idk what went down between him and Akitora later but Rogi still loves him and is just desperate to get his attention or even a reaction from him. I think thats really fucked and it definitely makes me pity him. While he was raping Akitoras son they were both unhappy and think about it being a different person the entire time.
I don't know why I read manga that hurt me like this. I don't know how to feel. I've cried so much throughout this so far- even when they were all just sitting down and having dinner together cause its like Rogi finally got his family. I love Ane and I don't want her to suffer. Like she said I'm sure Akitora loves her but he also loves Rogi. Contrary to many beliefs you can definitely love multiple people at the same time. I just want them all to stay together as a happy family but I already know that doesn't happen... Ahh I am in pain. Rogi is precious both young and old and I just want to protect him. I want him to be happy and Akitora is his happiness but that would also hurt Ane. I am not okay.