a lot of bdsm couples have a nonverbal signal. Let's say he's tied up and gagged. The top/dom will give him a scarf. if he drops the scarf, that's the same as a safeword. (this is in real life btw, idk about this manhwa).
but anyway, this manhwa isn't meant to reflect real events. keep in mind that it's fiction.
Wow didnt know about that. Learn something new here. Thanks!
No i know about that, but im saying it’s dangerous for the seme to just leave him there without ant consent (as far as we know) beforehand.
well we didn't see them negotiate a lot of things. maybe they did for this one and it just happened on screen. it's fiction. no big.
*OFF screen (jesus. the typo)
tru but i wish more bdsm stuff represented it correctly ;-;
OH YAH. I wish a lot of things are represented accurately. Not just in this manhwa, but in all BL as a genre. *sigh* but we got to keep in mind that it's fiction. and the author/artist tends to focus more on plot than details/semantics because otherwise, it'll get to long.
abandonment play is v much a real thing, that in itself isnt dangerous as long as its not for very long, but you're right, you 100% need consent before you subject someone to that, and based on ukes confusion, i dont think he consented :/
isnt that... like... dangerous?? bc the uke cant say the safe word which is why its so dangerous to use a gag and to be tied up like that. kinda sus :/