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DeathbySarcasm November 14, 2020 8:50 pm

So I'm torn here. Everyone should be held accountable for their actions especially when they are harmful to others but my other problem is everyone has basically been telling him to move on and to get over him and now that he has this is all happening and I am super torn. Yes I dislike everything that he did but there is this moral question which is

Do we hate and not allow people to change based on their previous actions or do we allow them to change and grow as people?
Reply with your answer bc I'm curious on how you see it.

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    Snow_Juha November 15, 2020 12:22 am

    People who really think about it won't hate CW. Everyone is allowed to have a second chance. CW's past mistakes, however grave, shouldn't define who he really is. Like they say, hate the sin and not the sinner. I believe that deep down, he is not as bad as they make him out to be. He has issues, he has things to pay for and consequences to face. He's lunatic, psychotic and at the same time, he is talented, he cares for people dear to him and just like any human, yearns for love which nobody gave him freely.

    On a real life perspective, I'd also say the same. We do not stop regretting whatever age we are. And really, if you're really trying to change, how other people should see you shouldn't be your business because no matter how much you end up becoming a better person, they will still talk shit about your past mistakes. Change for yourself, change for people you want to hold dear and just be happy trying not to get shitty people's approval. fuck them lolol

    Snow_Juha November 15, 2020 12:23 am
    People who really think about it won't hate CW. Everyone is allowed to have a second chance. CW's past mistakes, however grave, shouldn't define who he really is. Like they say, hate the sin and not the sinner.... Snow_Juha

    Oh and I also saw this comment somewhere but if Chowon's the main character in here and we get to watch his whole story, I'm pretty sure that we'd be hurting and siding with him.

    DeathbySarcasm November 15, 2020 12:57 am
    Oh and I also saw this comment somewhere but if Chowon's the main character in here and we get to watch his whole story, I'm pretty sure that we'd be hurting and siding with him. Snow_Juha

    I also think people are really trying to make him out as crazy? He's not crazy he was just brought up in a horrible household with the mentality he deserves the best and would have a prince charming. ( this excuses none of his behavior) but let's be honest how he was brought up messed him up a lot more and even after everything that happened he still could have wanted to mess up dudes life in any way and was fighting to just forget. Others will linger on a feeling and revenge whereas he is trying hard without directly asking for help. I think we need to understand that people do change all of the time no matter your age or what you have done.

    Kimina November 15, 2020 1:02 am

    we shouldnt hate chowon actually but some should stop saying that "the past is in the past, you can see him changing now, why do you have to bring it up again"
    Chowon deserves a second chance too, you can also see his character development on the previous chapters but the thing is that, his past action needs to be addressed, just like the thing with heeso and hye sung before(when he tried to hid the byul) later on told dojin about it, and apologized.

    Chowon hasnt yet, thats why what he did in the past has to be brought upon again. Also, dont you think it would be unfair to kyungsoo if they dont tell him about it?
    More of it are here http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/8397031/ <3

    Kimina November 15, 2020 1:07 am
    we shouldnt hate chowon actually but some should stop saying that "the past is in the past, you can see him changing now, why do you have to bring it up again" Chowon deserves a second chance too, you can also ... Kimina

    tried to hid byul*

    Snow_Juha November 15, 2020 1:18 am
    we shouldnt hate chowon actually but some should stop saying that "the past is in the past, you can see him changing now, why do you have to bring it up again" Chowon deserves a second chance too, you can also ... Kimina

    I agree. As much as I love their lovey dovey moments, KS has to know all the skeletons in CW's closet otherwise they would be living a life out of secrets and lies.

    Snow_Juha November 15, 2020 1:28 am
    I also think people are really trying to make him out as crazy? He's not crazy he was just brought up in a horrible household with the mentality he deserves the best and would have a prince charming. ( this exc... DeathbySarcasm

    The only thing I can't think of as pure crazy he did was to kidnap Heesoo and ordered a last minute attempted rape at him. Heesoo is innocent, no matter what angle you try to look at it. About breaking some guy's legs, that is not clear since he said the lines "It wasn't me who..."

    For Dojun, lets be honest, he's partly at fault of what became their marriage. Not full-time blaming him though since he and Chowon were just forced to get married. Even he admitted that he neglected Chowon. He only got to convince him to go through therapy when Heesoo got already involved. So yeah, we could understand where CW is coming from here.

    For Byul, it was straight up evil to be disgusted with a baby but it's not a life threatening scenario. It can change. CW's point of view towards those 'below' him could change. Apologies to Byul and Hyesung could fix it.

    You're right about CW's family. Like fuck man, your child just got divorced. Not gonna ask if he's okay and just blame him for causing shame to the family? I really wish that in the end CW turns his back on them and live a life he wanted. His family does not love him. Just his talents and his pheromones.

    Snow_Juha November 15, 2020 1:29 am
    The only thing I can't think of as pure crazy he did was to kidnap Heesoo and ordered a last minute attempted rape at him. Heesoo is innocent, no matter what angle you try to look at it. About breaking some guy... Snow_Juha

    Oops, I mean.. the only thing I *can. (in the first line)

    damn mangago y u not allow us to edit comments.