I guess? But they clearly don’t have that mind-set and they knew it was just sex.. if he really had a problem with it he would have already said so or told the police.
It's because mostly BL stories romanticize this but the blond guy was uncomfortable of what happened y'know and if it's in rl it still would've been considered as rape.
Those are dangerous words to victims: "So you didn't go to the police? Well, if you didn't say so nor went to the police to report anything, you didn't see it as rape right? Okay sounds good. Sounds like it was just sex. Just remember to not drink too much next time okay?"
Imagine this response to every rape victim: "You didn't report it to the police so it was just sex. Just don't drink too much next time okay. Don't make a big deal out of it"
Yes, I know. In the story he said, “if I knew you felt bad I wouldn’t have slept with you,” all I can assume is that he knew what he was doing at the time, and even now we can’t say if he enjoyed it or not. If he’s brave enough to stick up to his, “rapist” then surely he can tell the police if he really had a problem or thought it was rape. // The only reason I’m typing this is the fact that these are fake characters, I know what type of persons these are. I honestly don’t think the black hair would have any intentions to do something so cruel to him.
but remember this is a korean comic and in south korea sex crimes aren’t treated as important as they should be and also they are both men - since south korea is not really that progressive they may turn him away after finding out he was raped by another man or he won’t want to come forward because of their society’s mindset
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and also let’s not victim blame here there are thousands of people everywhere who have been sexually assaulted and raped who haven’t come forward because of different circumstances - now you wouldn’t say to them “just go to the police” right? you don’t understand what that person is going through and it’s not ok to say this just because it’s a comic that’s just ignoring the problem
I still stand by what I said— we don’t know if it was rape or not. The author never said it was or wasn’t, or hinting towards that.
It's still rape when one sober person had sex with a DRUNK or INTOXICATED person, please stop making excuses and justifying his actions.