yeah do you hear yourself though? If r/pe in yaoi is so prevelant that you're no longer suprised that its there. There is clearly something wrong. Anyways, I understand how you think that getting "shocked" by it is a little strange because it's altogether too common. Such a same that most yaoi have so much r/pe in it.
That right their is the problem. That your no longer shocked at a rape scene anymore just goes to show how BL has normalized rape in its works to the point where we have become indifferent to it. When we really, really, really shouldn’t be. That’s why it’s important that we keep calling it out even if we enjoy the series, so we don’t normalize it and become further desensitized to it anymore.
Not gonna lie, and people are probably gonna hate me if I say that, but why is everyone obsessed with the presence of rape in manhwas, it's yaoi there's always rape that's not a surprise, so I don't really get why people are always offended as if it never happens in yaoi? Not saying rape is not awful, it IS don't get me wrong I'm just saying that (and it's probably just me then) I'm not "shocked" by rape in manhwas because it is everywhere