Have any of you heard someone say something and been like “was that homophobic?” Or “are they a homophobe?”

Not that I think of but I was told that I was homophobic when I said not to assume my faves' sexuality
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yeah my friends usually say that actually lol
i told them i read BL and stuff and one of them was too disgusted by that.idk
and then she was like
"was i being homophobic?" the answer is yes.

ALSO
there's no such thing as "too sensitive"
harmful comments are bad and shouldn't be existed. don't feel bad for other people's harmful attitude, they're dumb and stupid and maybe don't deserve love.

My mum once said when she had short hair (it was the style at the time) she wore a lot of makeup to avoid looking like a lesbian and I thought to myself “so you think looking like a lesbian is bad and lesbians never wear makeup” which was a bit much from such a small comment.