I mean... at that point is it really cheating
If everybody is aware and are consenting adults, no. It’s not cheating.
no. 1+1=2 u cant have more than 2 ;^;
Why not?
it just doesn't work u-u
imagine being married and you are knowledgeable about ur husband sleeping with other women, it just don't feel right
Well, I guess it wouldn’t work for someone that is in a agreed upon monogamist relationship And can’t imagine being with anybody else nor their partner having more than one romantic partner, but that doesn’t mean it is that way for everyone. That doesn’t mean that it wouldn’t work in an open relationship, Where SO’s communicate about who they’re seeing, what they’re doing, why they’re seeing them, etc. Or a polygamist relationship, where SO’s all live together and care about each other. Having a partner that has another partner may be uncomfortable for you but that doesn’t really mean that’s how it is in every relationship. It’s not cheating if they are all informed about each other and what they’re expecting from each other. It’s just different from the norms that we’ve been groomed into believing. I mean, if you were openly dating 3 guys and you told all of them that you weren’t currently being exclusive, the guys that understood that would stick around and the guys that didn’t wouldn’t, right? And of course you would communicate with them whoever you had a date set up with one and couldn’t see the others. Or if you decided to become exclusive you would clearly tell the other two that you were gonna just date the third guy. Loving more than one person happens. It’s not about whether or not you can or can’t love more than one person. It’s whether you can handle The dedication and love that needs to be poured into Being in a relationship with more than one person.
woah back it up a bit. if ur dating three guys and they're not aware of eachother thats cheating lol so thats fessing up to cheating when u tell em. its understandable if they would leave u for it
I literally said if you’re openly dating three guys. That literally means they all know. “Open” means being upfront about vocal about All relationships and expectations.
what do i do if i ship her with all of em???? i don't like cheating so a harem is out of the question T^T