If 95% of BL readers can keep excusing and stanning abusive, toxic, rapist (ahem... Dojin)...

fixxle November 3, 2020 10:08 am

If 95% of BL readers can keep excusing and stanning abusive, toxic, rapist (ahem... Dojin) semes, why can’t they excuse an immature uke with obvious mental health issues, heartbreak and trauma from divorce?

Responses
    Cinead November 3, 2020 10:13 am

    I totally agree
    But dojin wasnt abusive or toxic though ?

    fixxle November 3, 2020 10:19 am
    I totally agree But dojin wasnt abusive or toxic though ? Cinead

    Yeah the parenthesis was for the rapist part

    Katelyn-555 November 3, 2020 10:19 am
    I totally agree But dojin wasnt abusive or toxic though ? Cinead

    Dojin r#ped hye sung kept him in his house by guilt tripping him. And also particularly forced him to have the baby. Yeh mhm he "isnt abusive"

    fixxle November 3, 2020 10:20 am
    Dojin r#ped hye sung kept him in his house by guilt tripping him. And also particularly forced him to have the baby. Yeh mhm he "isnt abusive" Katelyn-555

    Ok yes you’re right hahaha he’s all three

    Cinead November 3, 2020 10:21 am
    Yeah the parenthesis was for the rapist part fixxle

    Oh ok
    He did rape him there is no excuse for that

    Cinead November 3, 2020 10:23 am
    Dojin r#ped hye sung kept him in his house by guilt tripping him. And also particularly forced him to have the baby. Yeh mhm he "isnt abusive" Katelyn-555

    I kinda get were are u going
    And yeah the whole thing with forcing him to stay
    But the baby part was a mutual agreement
    He wanted the baby and he liked money lol

    lei November 3, 2020 10:26 am

    honestly i felt like dojin was such a good seme for most of the part, so i was extra disappointed when they made him go that stereotypical seme part with the rape like rly? :/

    fixxle November 3, 2020 10:28 am
    honestly i felt like dojin was such a good seme for most of the part, so i was extra disappointed when they made him go that stereotypical seme part with the rape like rly? :/ lei

    I was so into the main couple before.... up until the rape part. i still love hyesung and want his happiness but i just can’t forgive dojin :/

    lei November 3, 2020 10:35 am
    I was so into the main couple before.... up until the rape part. i still love hyesung and want his happiness but i just can’t forgive dojin :/ fixxle

    they made him do that and for what? i liked him a lot smh i mean ig i still do just cause he's shown more good in him than ive seen in most semes. but its a problem that the bar is so low hh can we just have one purely good seme or one that has any other flaw that's not being a freaking r*pist

    fixxle November 3, 2020 10:43 am
    they made him do that and for what? i liked him a lot smh i mean ig i still do just cause he's shown more good in him than ive seen in most semes. but its a problem that the bar is so low hh can we just have on... lei

    Agreed. Not criticizing those who still like Dojin... i mean this is still just fiction after all. My point is just the double standards when it comes to ukes and why most bl readers can’t extend the same level of sympathy for them as they do for semes who have done far worse the bar for semes is truly so low but so high for everyone else lol

    Xie Lo November 3, 2020 10:50 am
    I totally agree But dojin wasnt abusive or toxic though ? Cinead

    He is, he didn't think about Chowon even in the slightest. He carry on with their marriage even though he doesn't love the Omega one bit and that took a great toll on Chowon. Being paranoid trying to answer questions such as why? What could be the problem? What's wrong with himself that leads to who can be the reason why? Such paranoia can lead people to get crazy, filled with insecurities, anxiety and depression. To be in the kind of relationship where you are the only one who is in love can create a lot of mess to the mind of the person giving the affection.

    Cinead November 3, 2020 11:27 am
    He is, he didn't think about Chowon even in the slightest. He carry on with their marriage even though he doesn't love the Omega one bit and that took a great toll on Chowon. Being paranoid trying to answer que... Xie Lo

    I agree
    But that's dojun, the alpha in question was dojin...

    Xie Lo November 3, 2020 11:48 am
    I agree But that's dojun, the alpha in question was dojin... Cinead

    Ow I'm so sorry I might have confused the two names since they both almost the same hehehe.