personal question- please help

mermaidlily May 25, 2015 6:19 pm

if you live in the house with a physical and verbal abuser and aren't able to leave the house. How does one survive in the house. what do they do against the constant abuse?
please help
thank you

Responses
    Anna May 25, 2015 7:06 pm

    The good news is no one has to put up with any form of abuse. It's just really hard to realise or accept that it's better to leave the person who is doing this to you.
    Luckily there are probably hundreds of counselling services that could help you with your situation. There will definitely be somebody who will listen to you, take your problem seriously, and give you guidance on what to do next.

    I hope I could help you. I wish you all the best.

    Yui-chan May 25, 2015 7:10 pm

    I found this website http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
    I hope it'll help. Personally I advise you to speak up and don't let yourself get hurt

    Blue May 25, 2015 8:34 pm

    If you are a minor then you don't have to put up with it. You report it to cps and they will remove you from the home you are in and do an investigation. There is help you just need to ask for it.

    《Lilium》๑۩۞۩๑ May 25, 2015 10:58 pm

    Abusers can't be negotiated with ... even if you try to reach a modus vivendi with the said person, this will still backfire on the victim. Abusers need either psychiatric help or a coercive force to put them in check like reporting them to the police even if they are a parent or a relative. I think that you should either blow the whistle on the said person or find a job and move out. It also depends on where you live in, if you're a minor there are special services you could contact (Google the words: child abuse, department of public welfare and the name of the area you live in). There will be a distinct website which will appear from your search queries and there will be contact information or an application to fill and send.

    Anonymous May 26, 2015 3:38 am

    Honey, if youre absolutly unable to leave make that person as scare of you as hoy are of him or her. Everyone sleep.
    That work for me.