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Exactly, I think the uke is kind of daft in that department... so it'd probably take the seme asking directly "are you an m" for him to ever say anything ahahaha!
Still a breach of trust though in more than one department, but I don't think the uke was being purposely dishonest (except for the whole not bringing feelings)
Wait a minute... did the uke ever even say he was an m? He said he liked what they were doing, but did he ever say he was an m directly?