this one is really funny and it's by either the writer or artist of oremonogatari, a super popular shoujo manga/anime if you've seen that: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/faded_first_love/
tackles the topic of asexuality really well, is just really well written and has a comfortable pace: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/usagi_no_mori/
more slice of life ish, genuinely wholesome, no real drama: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/itoshi_no_nekokke/
the most wholesome thing i've seen lately. the bunny ties it in together in a package of warmth: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shiawase_gohan_maki_to_hanazawa/
this isn't really a bl, but i thought it was worth mentioning anyways as i thought it was quite interesting and unlike anything i've seen before. this is essentially an essay in manga form by a gay japanese man who ran away to tokyo when he was young, and he talks about his experience as a sex worker: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/gay_fuuzoku_no_mochigi_san_sexuality_is_life/
I want a BL that's different , hits hard and is really good ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ , if it's really popular I most probably read it ┗( T﹏T )┛, and please no lists I want a story/couple of stories that you felt were special and one of a kind