Me. Confused.

Nananônima12 October 27, 2020 3:01 pm

I didn't undertand when his partner said "Do it rough today" and he recorded him saying "It hurts", well, the fact that he said stop and he didn't stopped was rape, but the "ex-partner" that said him to do it rough (Sorry for my bad english), so he is also wrong? (I'm not saying bad things ok, I loved the story, I'm Just confused)

Responses
    Flare October 28, 2020 1:27 am

    Hmm do it rough means that his partner likes pain to a certain degree ig, so "it hurts" and "stop" probably doesn't do much (some people say that just for the sake of it during sex). But I agree they probably should have decided on a safe word and then the seme should have stopped. All this also depends on what the uke's motive is (he may or may not be faking it)

    BeeHive October 28, 2020 5:48 pm

    You should think that the "best friend" is manipulative he might have set a safe word that he didn't use so the seme keep going since for most bdsm/rough segg stuff like "stop" isn't the set safe word and he mention "do it like usual" so maybe in the past seggs he has been saying stop not really as it literal meaning. Damn i am bad at explanations but the point is some people say stop when even they didn't want it to stop that is why most safe word is usually non related segg word like "cupcake" or "unicorn"

    Nananônima12 October 31, 2020 4:10 am
    You should think that the "best friend" is manipulative he might have set a safe word that he didn't use so the seme keep going since for most bdsm/rough segg stuff like "stop" isn't the set safe word and he me... BeeHive

    Hmm, that makes sense, it's more like in a BDSM play, "stop it" or "it hurts" (sometimes) is part of the roleplay...

    BeeHive October 31, 2020 5:46 am
    Hmm, that makes sense, it's more like in a BDSM play, "stop it" or "it hurts" (sometimes) is part of the roleplay... Nananônima12

    I mean there are people who get even more excited when they hear or use the word stop there even a rape roleplay

    wangjiloveswuxian November 4, 2020 2:13 pm

    he did it on purpose to set the seme up. he told him to "do it rough" but then only used words that were like denying so that when he showed others, it looked like he was being raped. seme was manipulated.

    Nananônima12 November 5, 2020 2:40 am
    he did it on purpose to set the seme up. he told him to "do it rough" but then only used words that were like denying so that when he showed others, it looked like he was being raped. seme was manipulated. wangjiloveswuxian

    As I thought, thanks to explaining

    rukkias November 5, 2020 7:54 am

    Im assuming it was to "ruin" him. Perhaps the partner hated him

    wangjiloveswuxian November 5, 2020 3:28 pm
    As I thought, thanks to explaining Nananônima12

    happy to help!