Asexual

JJoooo October 25, 2020 9:34 pm

Aye for all the asexual peeps how did y’all find out you were Asexual? (=・ω・=)

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    Stranger October 25, 2020 10:21 pm

    I can't imagine myself being someone's gf or wife,no,basically I can't imagine being someone's partner romantically.I can be a sincere friend but not more than that(well, for me, friendship is the most sincere relationship)
    Well,on top of that I am not really interested in sex, even if there's a lover I don't want to have sex with them.
    I am not fine with physical contacts.even if it's my mom or someone really close,I don't usually hug them or let them hug me.

    temaratempura October 25, 2020 10:22 pm

    The thought or idea of sexual contact repulses me whether it be male or female.

    mafuyu October 25, 2020 10:23 pm

    just over time. i grew up never understanding cheating plotlines, like why would you ruin a relationship just so you can have sex with someone else??

    then i realized, oh, i've never been attracted to someone that way before, ofc i dont get it lol

    ^~^ October 25, 2020 11:43 pm
    This reply will be showed after approved! Jokesonuyaoismyhobby

    Damn a lot of the things u mentioned just pissed me off for some reason^^ and i guess if u want sex that doesnt make u asexual... but what do i know ;) also not trying to start a fight here but this time i couldnt resist to comment (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    ^~^ October 26, 2020 9:53 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! jokesonuireadyaoi

    Im actually glad that its a longer reply and thank u for overcoming ur hesitation to talk about personal stuff even though im just a stranger :)

    If u may allow me to say this: your parents not allowing homosexuality, or dating, or u marrying for the reason of giving grandchildren to your parents or the financial aspect or pity or whatever... i just hope that u overthink these reasons^^ like if u actually find someone u love (coz maybe ur not actually aromantic but just havent found the one) and its a girl are u gonna let that go because of ur parents? Or having children for the sake of ur parents and not because u actually want to (thats a huuuggggeeee responsibility). My parents do not support homosexuality either but idgaf because their relationship was a huge disaster. They had my siblings and i for mostly for his sake and now shes alone with her children and having trouble to raise them. My parents dont support sex before marriage either but i dont plan to marry either way so f that. And i also dont want children so what^^ i learned that (and i know this may sound like i dont love them) its easy to break off relationships even if they are family, because if they dont respect my decisions and only want to project their idea of happiness on me even tho they failed themselves then theres no room for that.

    So tldr i hope u become happy no matter what the people around u say. I hope that if u start a new relationship you do so on equal grounds (like that ur partner knows what ur intentions are and not deceive them for someone elses sake). And i know what aromantic is supposed to be, but the person asking this question was talking about asexuality initially so thats that^^

    Hope you have a wondeful day^^

    JJoooo October 26, 2020 11:23 am
    Im actually glad that its a longer reply and thank u for overcoming ur hesitation to talk about personal stuff even though im just a stranger :)If u may allow me to say this: your parents not allowing homosexua... ^~^

    I needed that... you were so spot on.. thank you though