Actually most of the comments ive seen on switching are more like "ew no the seme doesn't look good as an uke idk why people like switches its so weird seeing them change positions"
But it ties in to what you were saying. Its their relationship so if they dont like it. They have the option to not read it.
I'm more bothered with how Miyashita phrased it and more so with using "it feels more natural" to justify himself and making it seem like Maki wasn't satisfied instead of thinking of it as they're both men who could give. It gives the idea that Maki is a "woman" who is expected to receive. Because Maki wasn't even gay in the first place, he was fixated with his virginity which makes the whole thing more insulting. And yeah, don't worry I dropped reading it because I didn't like it. But in terms of "normalizing switching", I agree to the extent that both parties have a say in it rather than the top insulting the bottom for even wanting to switch.
I thought this was cute and the way they discussed bottoming seemed fair to me. They both were in the positions they wanted they just didn’t know how to communicate properly. So they had a fight, but then made up and talked about it. Besides the seme even said he would bottom of the uke really wanted to. It’s funny seeing all these (and I’m going to assume here because of the complete ignorance in all their comments) girls saying “normalize switching” or whatever. Like you don’t know fuck about someone’s relationship. How would you know whats better for someone’s sexual relationship? Just because you have an idealized version of a “healthy gay couple” doesn’t mean it’s correct. Not every couple is the same whether gay or straight, so I don’t see why they all have to be switches.This seme wasnt toxic at all, honestly he gave the uke a lot of space and even stopped when he started crying. I liked the first story and I wasn’t really comment anything but it frustrates me seeing people idolizing only one way of being gay. As if being switch is the ultimate healthy form of being a gay man.