I kinda get why Eunwoo is confused and frustrated...

galaxyiet October 22, 2020 8:14 pm

I'm kinda in a similar situation, a guy first chased me asking to see him often and we has sex multiple times but then he doesn't send me anything for like 2 weeks?? So I just don't know what to think about the situation??

Responses
    Readaholic October 22, 2020 10:02 pm

    At that point it's best to ask up front what his intentions are. It's better than wondering what is going on and imagining things.

    Artkat17 October 23, 2020 2:08 am
    At that point it's best to ask up front what his intentions are. It's better than wondering what is going on and imagining things. Readaholic

    This one comment is totally right and y know why? CAUSE ITS THE EXACT OPOSSITE OF ALL THESE YAOI COUPLES...but i love them

    elfiemouse October 23, 2020 2:12 am

    Eh, he doesn’t like you. When a guy likes you, he makes it pretty clear and will ask you out, not ignore you for weeks. This guy probably just wants free sex with you without committing/making you his girlfriend. So just drop him and find someone better. Advice from a sis to a sis

    Bisexual October 23, 2020 4:06 am
    Eh, he doesn’t like you. When a guy likes you, he makes it pretty clear and will ask you out, not ignore you for weeks. This guy probably just wants free sex with you without committing/making you his girlfri... elfiemouse

    Tf kinda guy you been with, they never tell you how they feel.

    galaxyiet October 23, 2020 6:03 pm
    At that point it's best to ask up front what his intentions are. It's better than wondering what is going on and imagining things. Readaholic

    I'm afraid to make things awkward or ruin the thing we have if I ask :/

    galaxyiet October 23, 2020 6:04 pm
    This one comment is totally right and y know why? CAUSE ITS THE EXACT OPOSSITE OF ALL THESE YAOI COUPLES...but i love them Artkat17

    I first need to find the courage... I'm afraid to make things awkward or ruin the thing we have if I ask :/

    galaxyiet October 23, 2020 6:07 pm
    Eh, he doesn’t like you. When a guy likes you, he makes it pretty clear and will ask you out, not ignore you for weeks. This guy probably just wants free sex with you without committing/making you his girlfri... elfiemouse

    Hard to just leave if I'm having feelings for him... I feel stupid that I am the only who actually really liked the other person. He gives so many different signals that I don't know what to think ...Thanks for the advice!

    elfiemouse October 24, 2020 12:56 am
    Hard to just leave if I'm having feelings for him... I feel stupid that I am the only who actually really liked the other person. He gives so many different signals that I don't know what to think ...Thanks for... galaxyiet

    I would just ghost him— cut contact. Don’t look him up on social media, don’t respond to texts etc. going no contact will make it easier for you to get over him. Meeting a new guy will also make it easier to reduce your feelings for him. Wishing you the best of luck!

    elfiemouse October 24, 2020 12:57 am
    I would just ghost him— cut contact. Don’t look him up on social media, don’t respond to texts etc. going no contact will make it easier for you to get over him. Meeting a new guy will also make it easier... elfiemouse

    And to add on — you deserve a guy who treats you well and doesn’t make you feel confused and hurt all the time!!! Seriously you are too good for this guy who is playing games!

    galaxyiet October 24, 2020 10:54 am
    And to add on — you deserve a guy who treats you well and doesn’t make you feel confused and hurt all the time!!! Seriously you are too good for this guy who is playing games! elfiemouse

    Thank you for the advice, I'll try to follow it. You're really nice to me so thank you!!

    elfiemouse October 25, 2020 3:48 am
    Thank you for the advice, I'll try to follow it. You're really nice to me so thank you!! galaxyiet

    No problem, I’m happy to help!! A guy who likes you will make that clear so just remember that the next time you feel hurt and confused