fr. (for ch 11) Meeting for the first time with someone and then using a thin stick to spank them without knowing any of there limits... I just felt icky reading that. Like don't just rush into a scene without knowing literally nothing about your partner
Apparently almost all the women in this story is assholes now I feel bad for the men even though I'm a girl too ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
I really hate this even more then... every single BDSM manga that has a femdom always sucks, but as soon as the man is the dominant, it's good. What the fuck. The only femdom I can think of that is even remotely okay is Tsumi to Kai, but even that one isn't that good since there is, once again, a lack of consent. Then there is Nana to Kaoru, my favorite BDSM manga (which doesn't even have sex in it), which is just absolutely god tier with the exploration of what makes a good dom and sub.
Okay what the fuck. I just read chapter 13, which is basically the same as chapter 11 except man and women roles are reversed. Clearly, the author has some understanding of good BDSM practices, so why the fuck did they make it so vastly different. I am actually angry and flabbergasted between the differences and similarities in just those two chapters. The women just straight up abuse their male subs with no ask of consent, whereas that man just says, "I won't force you" and gives her a reasonable start of 5 spankings, with his HAND for their first scene unlike that other bitch who straight up used a stick and did 23 lashings. Why is there such a difference?!?!
This is exactly what I was thinking the difference in the representation of male doms and female doms is so different. And specifically in those chapter, basically same scene but the female dom doesn’t take consent. Which is very ironic. And people can argue that he chose to follow her but still she did not know his limits and or had a safe word or anything. Ridiculous
Yes. Even if he did follow her, a small panel or something showing them at least discussing safe words or hard limits would've made the scene 100x more enjoyable. Plus we didn't even see any aftercare. I know that these are supposed to be snippets of different stories and/or just one shots, but come on, a couple of panels dedicated to consent or aftercare wouldn't kill the author. With the second couple, it is so obviously a good relationship because the guy spent literal months researching BDSM for his partner, and then the next couple we just see some bullshit of a girl basically abusing a guy she met for the first time on a train. I just want some damn good femdom representation, not this or Sadistic Beauty or S Flowers bullcrap.
Bruh i just really wanna a good straight manga with proper representation of SM like this is just wrong