i always thought that everywhere in france they give 2 bises (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ haha i have that problem a lot cause in belgium it is or 1bise or 3 but there isn't really a rule so it can get awkward when you get ignored ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
My culture is slightly different but we "bise" too and I am always left bobbing my head when someone moves away. So embarrassing.
It depends of the people.. I've never "bised" my friends, but some of the students in High-School or even before "bised" each-other the morning, when they arrived in the school... But I've always thought it was completly weird xD
But I think that my friends and I were the "weird one" by not kissing one another the morning... I mean, most of the other students kissed (or as we say "se faisaient la bise" "did the bise to each other")
Now, for example, I still not "bise" my friends. But when my mother come home from work, I "bise" her once. When her boyfriend come home however, I "bise" him twice, on each cheek. My sister doest the same.
... There is no proper rules... that makes it definitly strange x)
What is the "mano-po" ?
In Canada the only ppl who do the "Bise" are the French people. I'm from western Canada and if ppl were to do that to me, I'd get upset. (._.")
well in india we touch the feet of our elder ( can be anybody like parents , elder brother etc) to show them respect but also as a form of greeting. but in this age of globalization it's pretty much disappearing and now we only touch the feet of our grandparents and elderly.
In Portugal we also "bise" each other as a greeting (bump each others cheeks while kissing air, but yeah same thing xP ), but only if there is a girl involved or if it's 2 guys that are extremely close friends/siblings/father and son that hadn't seen each other in a while.
We do 2 kisses, one on each cheek (if it's between a guy and a girl or 2 girls or the exception I mentioned above) and it can be done between strangers or even best friends since it's the most common form of greeting for a girl ^.^
Yeah, I forgot to mention that 2 men rarely "bised" each other, they shake hand... Probably because it is more """"manly"""" u.u ... But they kiss if they're very close. Or, for example, when an adult has known a boy since his childhood, even when the boy become an adult, they still kissed as a form a greeting...
... I realized how complex it is in reality u.u
I didn't know that in Portugal, you do the same !
Rotten, in India, you have to bow veeeery low in order to touch their feet, don't ypu ?
Well I'm from Spain and we also "bisé" but, it's "dos besos" two kisses, and its the most common greeting between women, and women-men, but men usually shake hands and pat shoulders or hug. Men only do that when are close family, relatives or friends that grew together, or gay people. So if you are a girl and enter a room with 10 people you give two kises in turns to everyone!! (Mostly by seating order)
I do it so automatically that when foreigners come here, i still do it by reflex (and then always regret it ╥﹏╥ ) Even when I visited UK last year, i still did!! So, I understand that its difficult to other people to adapt to your customs, and i hope that when you people face some situation like this, just.. be patient!!
picture of "mano po" http://www.emeraldpinoyradio.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/mano-po-lola.jpg
yeah.for our hands to reach their feet we have to bow quite a bit.it is believed in india that the heavens resides in the feet of our elder and therefore we should respect them.
bise would be too much skinship in indian conservative society.my friend who belongs to a traditonal and conservative indian family is actually even afraid of making eye contact with her father when considered unnecessary.
even i don't the reason to be so strict ,my family is pretty open minded so sometimes to show our affection to each other we kiss each other's cheek
We don't "bise" only close friends... We'll "bise" anyone we know... At least, when we know their names. For example, we "bise" our parents' friends, even if we met them for the first time. We bise our friends' friends too.
And the number of "bise" is different according to the region. At Paris and in the North, we do 2 bises (some people say 4, but I've always done 2 bises, and all my friends too). That means that we kiss each cheek once. In the center of the France, they do 3 bises. In Paris, we start to kiss the right face of the person. In the south of France, they start by the left. So when you're not aware of those slightly differences, it can be pretty embarassing xD And you can be sure that you always forgot how many bises the other person will do, so you sometimes ignore him for the 3rd bise, or sometimes you get ignored, and it's absolutly ridiculous xD
... I just wanted to explain the subtility of the famous "bise" !