Am I the only one who does this ??

koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:06 pm

Kiss scenes don't faze me, their just blant and boring, an exchange of saliva between two people. I don't feel anything when a kiss scene happens, litteraly nothing...When I watch shows where two people have "sex" even if it's not blantly showed I litteraly do not fucking care, I get very bored...

That's for straight kissing/sex scenes between a woman and a man...

One the other hand, queer kiss scenes, whether it's GL or BL, make my stomach go crazy, I litteraly can't read them without stopping to catch my breath from pure excitement. I never get that feeling with the Yaoi/Yuri sex scenes. That's why I read Shounen-ai and Shoujo-ai. I think i'm just attracted to same sex couples kissing. It's not my kink though...I'm into BDSM. I just like it when queer people kiss.

I'm also really attracted to lower backs, necks and faces. I find them really hot. I don't know why. When I read Shounen-ai, I get so excited when I get to see a lower back.

I don't jerk off to those things tho, masturbating just doesn't do it for me and I find it wierd to wank off to queer stuff. It's probably just me? but whatever, not everyone is the same on this dumb earth.

And if you guys were wondering, I am a very bisexual woman. So being "aroused" if you will, by to two girls kissing isn't too shoking. For the "getting butterflies in my stomach when I see to guys kissing" might be from my fujoshi phase (as in straight me fetishizing gay men because I thought it was supposed to be allyship to the gay community. Don't hate younger me she was 12 ok ?) ? maybe it's disgust and i'm actually homophobic ? (probably not)...Or maybe I just like seeing people kiss in general. Except when it's straight people, I've seen too much of that.

As for the Yaoi/Yuri explicit scenes, I cringe. I cringe so hard whenever I read them. I only like the kiss scenes. That's it. I honestly read Yaoi/Yuri for the art style or story. Never the sex, litteraly never. I hate queer sex scenes, I litteraly hate them so much. I don't know why...I don't mind real queer people doing the deed, I just don't like how Yaoi/Yuri portray sex scenes in the gay community.

I need to know your guys' opinion on this subject and I'd like to know if i'm the only person on this hellish website I go on all the fucking time who has the same opinions as me

Responses
    NahThanks October 20, 2020 7:11 pm

    Umm.. that's quite heterophobia. kiss scenes if the author made it good either art or plot i think its all same within gender

    koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:12 pm
    Umm.. that's quite heterophobia. kiss scenes if the author made it good either art or plot i think its all same within gender NahThanks

    heterophobia ?? excuse yourself ??????????????

    koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:19 pm
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    i figured...

    lemoncakes October 20, 2020 7:19 pm
    Umm.. that's quite heterophobia. kiss scenes if the author made it good either art or plot i think its all same within gender NahThanks

    heterophobia? i- you can show yourself out

    Paper bag boi October 20, 2020 7:21 pm

    I always pretend I that kiss scenes when people are around bc they all think it’s gross....but it’s not? I personally find it super heartwarming. I know a lot of homophobic people, and sometimes I just wanna smack them on the head, but I mean, it’s their opinion. Sooo... idk.

    koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:22 pm
    I always pretend I that kiss scenes when people are around bc they all think it’s gross....but it’s not? I personally find it super heartwarming. I know a lot of homophobic people, and sometimes I just wann... Paper bag boi

    I see what you mean, thanks for the reply (=・ω・=)

    Rat October 20, 2020 7:24 pm
    heterophobia ?? excuse yourself ?????????????? koicujohkhloe

    Dose hetrophobia even exist? Like I've heard it does and it doesn't lol

    lemoncakes October 20, 2020 7:28 pm
    Dose hetrophobia even exist? Like I've heard it does and it doesn't lol Rat

    It doesnt. Straight people have never had to feel the injustices that gay people have. They can hold hands freely in public, express affection without getting publicly humiliated or beaten, and havent ever been targeted or scrutinised for their sexuality. This is also a part of Straight privilege. If youre interested in learning more id encourage you to explore and do your own research, its interesting to learn about these injustices and see them from different perspectives.

    koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:28 pm
    Dose hetrophobia even exist? Like I've heard it does and it doesn't lol Rat

    it doesn't lmfao, unless straight people get killed, lynched, denied basic rights, misrepresented on the media, then i'll consider it's existence.

    NahThanks October 20, 2020 7:28 pm

    Fuxx I'm so frickin sorry. My lazy ass thought u said u like yaoi yuri kiss better then hetero one
    ( i read half )
    (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

    koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:32 pm
    Fuxx I'm so frickin sorry. My lazy ass thought u said u like yaoi yuri kiss better then hetero one( i read half )(╯°Д °)╯╧╧ NahThanks

    Oh, i thought so two, the hetero kiss scenes aren't really the subject matter here anyway

    Boomer move October 20, 2020 7:34 pm
    Umm.. that's quite heterophobia. kiss scenes if the author made it good either art or plot i think its all same within gender NahThanks

    Heterophobia is nonexistent

    NahThanks October 20, 2020 7:37 pm
    Heterophobia is nonexistent Boomer move

    Ik, its just a thing that i call a human dislike hetero because they're gay or fujo (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    #1GapMoeSlave October 20, 2020 7:43 pm

    That’s a totally normal opinion for lgbtq+ members~ (⌒▽⌒) As a fellow bisexual I totally get you haha~ Kissing between queer people in general really makes me happy since it feels like they’re able to do smth that’s unattainable irl? Or maybe I’m just projecting myself onto them since I’m also queer? Hets kissing is just them flaunting the same saliva swapping they do in public 24/7 hhh. And the sex in bl/gl does feel like a gross misrepresentation of who we are, so hating it is normal too haha. Either way, these opinions are totally normal for those of us in the LGBTQ+ community, but most of the people on this site are cishet 10yr old girls so I can see how you might have ended up thinking that your likes put you in the same boat.

    If you want some good queer manga w/ more healthy and/or realistic relationships don’t hesitate to ask ^^

    koicujohkhloe October 20, 2020 7:51 pm
    That’s a totally normal opinion for lgbtq+ members~ (⌒▽⌒) As a fellow bisexual I totally get you haha~ Kissing between queer people in general really makes me happy since it feels like they’re able to... #1GapMoeSlave

    omg yes !!! please, if you have any good queer stories from this site, i have alot on my list so just feel free to check the one's i have on my list. i labeled it "shonen-ai" and "shoujo-ai", so just recommend some that aren't already on my list

    Rat October 20, 2020 8:15 pm
    It doesnt. Straight people have never had to feel the injustices that gay people have. They can hold hands freely in public, express affection without getting publicly humiliated or beaten, and havent ever been... lemoncakes

    Ah okay! Thank you for informing me.

    Rat October 20, 2020 8:15 pm
    it doesn't lmfao, unless straight people get killed, lynched, denied basic rights, misrepresented on the media, then i'll consider it's existence. koicujohkhloe

    I see. Thank you for telling me!

    #1GapMoeSlave October 22, 2020 2:51 am

    Heterophobia must be a thing because I am in fact a heterophobe. Fuck hets. Jk ofc , I hate most hets because of their close minded ignorance and prejudice, not because they like the opposite sex since I can relate to liking either gender. I guess heterophobia exists on a literal level? It’s not a problem plaguing anyone though, heterosexuals have literally all the rights their clown asses could ever want lmao. Worst case scenario someone lgbt+ says they don’t like them based solely on the fact that they’re het, but it’s not like hets are getting hate crimed so like???

    #1GapMoeSlave October 22, 2020 2:54 am

    So basically, I guess on a technical level it’s possible, but if anyone uses the term heterophobic un ironically they’re just a wimp of a homophobe who’s looking for an opening to label lgbt+ members (that rightfully dislike them) as oppressors, which has to be among the stupidest shit ever lmao