brrooo people are unliking this? don't be mad they're right ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Their probably the type of people who fetishize yaoi or they don't fetishize yaoi BUT they view yaoi as fetishizing as well. In my opinion its alright to read yaoi but separate it from reality. Like for example, you watched Suicide Squad. Do you think all relationships are like Harley and Joker with people who would willingly kill their self for their significant other? No, not everybody does that.
LMAOOO IK THIS IS SERIOUS BUT ITS SO FUNNY. But seriously dont be going acting like a fugioshi or however u spell it in real life that shit weird asf.
Totally, I mean its okay to say
"Oh! If you guys were in a romantic relationship it would be so cute/nice" but don't go around saying "OOOOH I SHIP THE TWO OF YOU YOU GUYS SHOULD GET MARRIED" *insert fetishizing part here* "WHICH ONE IS TOP/BOTTOM!?" Like no stop.
Okay so I know this is the most well known site for Yaoi but it ISN'T a yaoi based site so we're going to get that out of the way first. Anyways I see a lot of people here saying "Oh no! We're addicted to yaoi and I don't want to stop!" I suggest that you stop reading yaoi (and maybe stop using your mangago account for awhile) and reflect on what you've been doing/thinking. Here's a question, Are you reflecting yaoi into real relationships? If you are then stop reading yaoi and cool off a bit. Once you start getting addicted to yaoi MOST (I'm saying most not all) are going to go through the phase where your shipping literally every happy platonic male friendship that you see. If you do this stop it. You could be making people uncomfortable without noticing it. To those who can separate fiction from reality and aren't addicted to the genre then you're alright (づ￣ ³￣)づ